re: Does he still Love me? or is he cheating?

Quoting Sway13:“ nope none of them were... He did tell me at first he never wnated kids and he never wanted to get married... I told him "Don't punish me for her mistakes"”

his mistakes you mean. If he didn't want children he should've gotten the snip snip. Tell him that and tell him to get fixed after this baby, because it isn't the babys fault and hopefully he will come around

I just realized where this was posted. Was your first a preemie?

Quoting Sway13:“ I do talk to him adn ask him, if he loves me and if he want s to be with me? he says YES... but i dont ... [snip!] ... the baby... when I got my results that I was pregnant, and the weeks and by due date he said "I dont want to see that sh*t"”

omg!!!! i would seriously have to hurt him for saying that...that bs! i cant believe that! im so sorry girl! i would just keep your head up as high as you can...and let him know that he's making you feel the way you do.

Quoting Jessica [Slvrmoon]:“ I just realized where this was posted. Was your first a preemie?”

Yeh i was confused about that too?! but then i wonder that about alot of the posts in here these days  

If you've only been with him 2 years its not that surprising, the 'honeymoon phase' lasts 18 months and then we lose the 'love' hormones, so its natural for any relationship to take abit of a dip around that time. Add preggo hormones and weight gain on top of that, an the fact you've had 2 unplanned pregnancies in less than 2 years, wow! I dont think being distant is always a sign of cheating, it could be that hes freaking out about another baby. Just keep talking and i hope you guys can work it out.

Quoting Monica♥sMcKenzie:“ He probably does resent you for bringing another responsibility onto him. I mean he could've worn a condom ... [snip!] ... worn a condom you know. I am not sure I mean he doesn't seem like the talk it over type of guy. I am sorry. Good luck to you.”

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