scared..

Hey this may be a dumb question but.. I will be 20 weeks tomorrow and i am so paranoid that something will go wrong :-(. I have felt my son move and i know that it is common not to feel him some days but my question is: if something IS wrong would i definetly know? Is there always bleeding / bad cramping during or after a miscarriage? Thanks for any input.

if you're worried, call your doctor/ midwife.

Now that your prego you’re always going to worry..! just try to relax and be existed instead!! 

It's deffinatly normal to be paraniod i'm 31 weeks and still paraniod even more so maybe then when i was 20 weeks.

Its normal. I was terrified my entire pregnancy. and guess what? You don't stop worrying even after you have your baby. I think I worry even more now!

Congrats! on hitting week 20. I hit 20 weeks this week too. my due date is the nov the 7th. yea i was worried to. but i had my paranoid mom telling me things and she is a debby downer. but once i had my 20 week check up and sonogram it made me feel better. good luck to you

Quoting Katie --1st baby:“ Hey this may be a dumb question but.. I will be 20 weeks tomorrow and i am so paranoid that something ... [snip!] ... IS wrong would i definetly know? Is there always bleeding / bad cramping during or after a miscarriage? Thanks for any input.”

I had a misscarriage at 12 weeks and didn't know until I went to the doctor at 18 weeks for an ultrasound. I was young, 16 so my body wasn't ready they said. But sometimes there's no signs. But I don't think you have anything to worry about, you've made it this far it's hard to miscarry that far along. Good luck momma!

Is there something to worry more about at 20 weeks?
I have never heard of anything so i'm interested now...

i'm 20 weeks too... and it's totally fine to go a day without any movement. Did you go for an ultrasound yet? When i went they said my placenta's in the front so i won't be feeling movement until later on which should be about a week from now?so your fine