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posted 19th Jun

umm can i have your in laws

I'm due October 27th (a girl), have 2 kids & live in Upland, California

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posted 19th Jun

Quoting monkeylova:“ umm can i have your in laws ”

lol!!
I'd share if I could ..i got super lucky when I ended up w/ such awesome in-laws...
they make up for my real family kinda being a bunch of jerks!!

I have 1 child & live in Cortland, New York

LOVES MONKEYS

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posted 19th Jun

Quoting Punkerella:“ lol!! I'd share if I could ..i got super lucky when I ended up w/ such awesome in-laws... they make up for my real family kinda being a bunch of jerks!! ”

well that makes me a little less jealous hehe I guess we can't have it all eh?

I'm due October 27th (a girl), have 2 kids & live in Upland, California

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posted 20th Jun

Quoting monkeylova:“ well that makes me a little less jealous hehe I guess we can't have it all eh?”

yeah ..I'm just happy w/ what I got ..

I have 1 child & live in Cortland, New York

posted 20th Jun

Quoting Lilly89:“ Let them help you!! It'll take some stress off of you to look around and see a clean house. ”

that is soo true ...I freaking hate being home all day and looking at this messy house and not being allowed to do much about it !!
I feel bad !

I have 1 child & live in Cortland, New York

AliciaCirco

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posted 20th Jun

let them help! Theres not much you can do anyway w/ the bed rest and everything.

I have 2 kids & live in Missouri

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chaotic_kimmy

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posted 25th Jun

Quoting Punkerella:“ My house is a total wreck right now , and my baby is due in about 27 days ..my doctor has had me on bed ... [snip!] ... place around the time baby comes ..so Im kinda nervous that they will think that I'm a bad wife ... what would you ladies do??”

I think if my in-laws wanted to come stay in my house and help me, and then had something bad to say about me because of it, they'd never be welcome back in my home, regardless of how good their intentions were to start out with. But, I wouldn't worry. They've obviously been there, done that, and will understand how it's just too much for you to do alone (or at all, especially since you've been on bed rest and aren't used to physical activity). It's not what they think about you that matters anyways, seeing as how they cannot divorce you.

I'm due August 20th (a boy), have 1 child & live in Eufaula, Alabama

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chaotic_kimmy

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posted 25th Jun

Quoting chaotic_kimmy:“ I think if my in-laws wanted to come stay in my house and help me, and then had something bad to say ... [snip!] ... used to physical activity). It's not what they think about you that matters anyways, seeing as how they cannot divorce you.”

My bad, I never answered the question... Let them help if they are willing to help. You're going to need it. If my in-laws wanted to help, I'd let them. Hehe, fat chance of that happening.

I'm due August 20th (a boy), have 1 child & live in Eufaula, Alabama

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posted 25th Jun

Quoting chaotic_kimmy:“ My bad, I never answered the question... Let them help if they are willing to help. You're going to need it. If my in-laws wanted to help, I'd let them. Hehe, fat chance of that happening.”

I have 1 child & live in Cortland, New York

Mommyto3babes

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posted 25th Jun

I also say LET THEM HELP! Like someone else said, its not you asking cause you are lazy, they are offering because they understand. My opinion is that in the end its the best for eveyone involved. You wont be so stressed about the house not being clean, and can rest. The baby will come home to a calm environment because there isnt the stress of taking care of a demanding baby and the mad rush to clean the house now that this helpless sweet thing is sharing your home. AND it helps your inlaws feel like they are involved in making things easier on you and doing something for their new grandchild. Which, as we all know, is what every grandparent wants. So, relax. Enjoy the rest and save as much as you can for the big day. You'll need it. Sleep and totally calm environment can sometimes seem like a very distant memory after the arrival of a little one. Best of luck to you. And lucky you for having such great inlaws!