re: Wanting sex with a women!?

Quoting Localove348:“ u would think he would think it's hot but no he thinks that nasty! he's christan and he don't believe in same sex couples”

My fiance doesn't like it either, thank goodness. I think its gross as well.

i cant believe he happens to be one in like 1000000 men that tinks it nasty. i think it's just a dream. if i id half the shit in my dreams it would be weird haha  

Not real sure what to tell you. I've had dreams like that before but neverhad the urge to go cheat on my hubby with a woman but if I did he would probably like it. Maybe your hubby isn't showing you the affection that you need.I don't think you should worry about it. If anything you should be more worried about your husband, I've never heard of a man not thinking woman on woman was sexy!

Quoting lolajessup:“ i cant believe he happens to be one in like 1000000 men that tinks it nasty. i think it's just a dream. if i id half the shit in my dreams it would be weird haha  ”

hahaha very true!

I think its a normal thing. in your dreams ur exploring what it would be like to on the other side of the speturm. and theres always that natural curiousity.

Quoting KEE ツ:“ Most men think its sexy.”

Yeah, I know a lot of men that do, but my fiance' wouldn't only because he's a really good Christian and doesn't condone that stuff. My brothers prolly would like that kind of stuff though, they're freaks! LoL!

Hey, my man is 1 in 1000000 as well   haha

is not like imma leave him for a women but it's more like i just want to see how it would be lol i don't know, these dreams got me questioning my self lol ii love him and all but women are hot lol

Quoting KEE ツ:“ Most men think its sexy.”

Unless you have experienced sexual relations with a girl and your SO knows and is highly insecure about it (that's how mine is)

I think you have to find out whats missing in your sex life and go for it, i know your a holy christian woman..lol or maybe that wasnt you) but seriosly pull all the stops, try toys, porn etc..make it more interesting and i think you'll be more fullfilled-the other poster was right when she said you sound like your just bored with your sex life

Quoting Bubba {Jalene's mommy}:“ Unless you have experienced sexual relations with a girl and your SO knows and is highly insecure about it (that's how mine is)”

my fiances brother was with a girl for seven years that just last year told him she was a lesbian..MAN it was not funny, even his brothers dont bring it up.

Quoting Sara12345:“ my fiances brother was with a girl for seven years that just last year told him she was a lesbian..MAN it was not funny, even his brothers dont bring it up.”

Before I got with him I was ONLY into girls for a good year and a half almost 2 years. After I lost my virginity to my asshole ex and he started treating me really bad soI hated him and all guys so I couldn't stand another guy b/c I thought they were all like my ex. But idk how it happened me and my SO just started talking on myspace (we were friends from school) and then I just decided to go for it. Since then I've been bisexual I don't think liking girls is going to be soemthing I can get rid ofovernight but I don't do things to make him feel more insecure about them. I think the wrost I've done was when we were pregnant I HAD to watch lesbian porn to get in the mood.

Quoting Bubba {Jalene's mommy}:“ Before I got with him I was ONLY into girls for a good year and a half almost 2 years. After I lost ... [snip!] ... more insecure about them. I think the wrost I've done was when we were pregnant I HAD to watch lesbian porn to get in the mood.”

would you ever go back to women? Thats what i would worry about dating someone that was gay...you put all your time and energy into something that just isnt real

Quoting Sara12345:“ would you ever go back to women? Thats what i would worry about dating someone that was gay...you put all your time and energy into something that just isnt real”

To be honest idk. There's only one girl I've ever loved but I promised my SO I wouldn't leave him for her. When I got pregnant I made a commitment to him and my daughter to make this family last and work so she can have agood life but I really think if we were to break up for whatever reasons I wouldn't want to get with a guy. Just the idea of having another man around my daughter that isn't her daddy doesn't seem right to me. I wouldn't want her to be calling another guy daddy b/c he will always be her only dad. I know she wuldn't have to call him that but I know he wouldn't appreciate that and he has as much say in whose around her as I do. We have talked about it and he said he'd feel more comfortable with a woman in her life than another man.

Forgot to put in my last post I am bisexual but I don't act upon those feelings. Just to clear things up my heart belongs to him but I have liked girls for so long I can't just forget all about them like I never liked them if you understand what I'm saying.

Quoting Sara12345:“ my fiances brother was with a girl for seven years that just last year told him she was a lesbian..MAN it was not funny, even his brothers dont bring it up.”

omg i first read this and thought you said your fiances brother WASA GIRL for seven years. man i need a nap!