Okay ladies. So I'm closing in on 21 weeks. & Here for the past few days, I just feel fat. Not pregnant. Before I felt that... "ouuh ahh i'm creating a life" glow..
But, right now. I just dont know.
Around 18 weeks I was feeling LOTS of movement & now some days I dont feel any or much movement. & then other days I feel lots.. & ofcourse on those days I have that ouh ahh glow.
On my count down thingy it says I should be waking up at night because of movement. Yeah, NO. I'm waking up to go to the bathroom or because my fiance is playing video games in the middle of the night in our bedroom.

Just give me some peace of mind or send me rushing to the ER..    

I feel the same way!! I feel soo gross! Of course my fiance still says I'm beautiful and that I'm not fat, but I FEEL fat. I'm 25 weeks now, and I can feel the baby move around more. but when I was 18 weeks, there would be days I would feel lots of movements, and then others where I would feel little to no movements. And I never woke up in the middle of the night because of the baby. Thank goodness! But I'm glad to see I'm not the only one that feels this way.

Quoting Sebastian's Mami ♥:“ I feel the same way!! I feel soo gross! Of course my fiance still says I'm beautiful and that I'm not ... [snip!] ... in the middle of the night because of the baby. Thank goodness! But I'm glad to see I'm not the only one that feels this way.”

I know. I suppose I'm just worrying a lot. Ugh. lol
& then I've convinced myself that the baby may be moving around, but it's dying. i think i'm just completely paranoid because that actually happened to me with my first pregnancy  

Quoting Megan(expecting   ):“ i am 18 weeks and haven't felt any movement! This is my first pregnancy so i don't know alot about it...should i be worried??!!”

i read that it can take quite a while to start feeling movement
but i'm worried because i have felt it & now it's gone most of the time

I get paranoid sometimes too. I think I first started feeling little flutters when I was about 17 weeks, close to 18 i think. Then I would feel the baby a lot during the week, and not so much during the weekends (weird I know, lol). But now that I'm 25 weeks, I feel the baby's movements more now. I guess because he's bigger.

Quoting Ashley & Aaron:“ I know. I suppose I'm just worrying a lot. Ugh. lol & then I've convinced myself that the baby ... [snip!] ... around, but it's dying. i think i'm just completely paranoid because that actually happened to me with my first pregnancy  ”

Oh wow so sorry to hear that   How far along were you when that happened?

I'm 24 weeks and I still get days that he likes to sleep in. Don't worry too much, they sleep too and have lazy days.

Quoting Megan(expecting   ):“ i am 18 weeks and haven't felt any movement! This is my first pregnancy so i don't know alot about it...should i be worried??!!”

It's normal. It can take up to 25 weeks to feel anything. Don't worry.

Well, I too have good days and bad days...these days though, the baby kicks and moves alot. Sometimes, it even hurts. I don't sleep well, and I'm up all night. Both with going to the bathroom, and the movement. I cant get comfy!!! When my boyfriend sings to my belly, aboutthree inches from it, the baby kicks alot. He likes to put his hand on my belly and sing to feel it move. For the longest time I wasnt feeling excited or a glow, but now I really am. Especially after I got to hear the heartbeat. Dont worry honey. Once you get seen by a doctor, you will feel so much better! Thats all I needed was the reassurance from my doctor that everything was going good!!!