my life should be a soap opera.

I should make my life into a movie, I swear.
My babies dad lives half way across the US with his girlfriend and will be going to prison next month.
My exboyfriend just came back from a year and a half trip to Iraq and made me think we were going to get back together just to sleep with me. (talk about a broken heart and crazy hormones, not a good mixture)
And then I randomly have another guy in my life that wants to be the dad to my baby but isnt, but has convinced himself and his family that he is, even though we did not sleep together around the time I got pregnant.
Should I just give up on finding a guy that is normal? I swear this is a lot to handle right now. grrrr!!!!!

you dont need a man in your life.. you are going to have a lil baby very soon that is going to love you more then any guy could ever...!!!stay strong and good luck...

Aww you're from Eastern WA, there are not enough good guys around here!!! LOL I've given up on trying to find a "normal" one too, my baby's dad's ex-gf has him so in check its sickening! But being a single mom is great I wouldn't change it for the world!!

its okay... im living the soap opera lifestyle too... sadly its been going on way before i ever let myself get pregnant...

but yeah, im gonna be a single mom first time around too.

I believe you should discard all 3 men from your life and focus on the birth of your baby and how you want both your futures to turn out.

No use thinking of the past..you can only work on the future.

It will only get better. Good luck to you...you have only one chance to make it right for you and your baby.

Men? There are many of them and you can have them anytime when you are settled and emotionally and physically ready to have em.

thanks for the advice. Its just hard to realize that things will get better when my hormones are telling me they wont. I know that once my daughter gets here it will be easy to forget about all of them, just right now its easier said than done.

I'd remove those guys out of your life. Focus on you and the baby. and trust me, you WILL find a normal guy. I never thought I would and one day he came out of the blue  

hahah my lifes a train wreck not a soap opera .
men dont mean everything ... i hope things work out for you!!