How do i fix this?

my boyfriend plays Final fantasy XI..he plays when he gets up till the time the goes to work then comes home and plays till all hours..sometimes i get luck and he only plays till 2 or 3 but lately its been 5 6 and up...i have tried to talk to him about it..but he doesnt seem to care...and when either me or his mom ask him to do something he gets all pissy and acts like we r askin him for a million bucks..he went with me to my last drs app. but thats only cuz we got to hear the babys heartbeat...we havent even talked about what we are going to do for the baby or where we are going to live when the baby is born...can someone please help me

Tell him the goes or he goes..

i can't help because i have the same problem... except mine works full time, so he has to be in bed by 2 to be able to get up at 8!

I would throw his game in the garbage if he can't understand that its time to be a man and plan for your future.

Quoting Amanda~Mommy-2-b~:“ my boyfriend plays Final fantasy XI..he plays when he gets up till the time the goes to work then comes ... [snip!] ... about what we are going to do for the baby or where we are going to live when the baby is born...can someone please help me”

He needs to grow up... my hubby is a gamer and has been since we met but there is a time for playing games and a time for being responsible...

tell him grow up or get gone

Quoting Amanda~Mommy-2-b~:“ my boyfriend plays Final fantasy XI..he plays when he gets up till the time the goes to work then comes ... [snip!] ... about what we are going to do for the baby or where we are going to live when the baby is born...can someone please help me”

Get a boyfriend who is responsible. There is more to life than video games. Ughhhhhh I hate that!

Sometimes it takes guys a little longer to grow up and realize that they're having a kid... Unfortunately, you can't really change people. He has to change on his own and realize that he has responsibilities.

You can try to give him an ultimatum, but that could hurt more than help. In the end all you can do is see how he is when the baby is born.

Quoting Mommy2Bella:“ Get a boyfriend who is responsible. There is more to life than video games. Ughhhhhh I hate that!”

  I agree lol. I was listening on the radio and they were talking about rediculous rehab and stuff. They said that they actually have rehab for people addicted to gaming.

My Fiance plays WoW.. a lot but so did I before the baby. I agree with the ladies, he needs to grow up, you can still have fun and be a man at the same time. My finace came to every doctors appt he could make it to, and he would do things around the house when I asked him to (for the most part lol).

Quoting ♥Hailee's Mama:“   I agree lol. I was listening on the radio and they were talking about rediculous rehab and stuff. They said that they actually have rehab for people addicted to gaming.”

LMAO! My husband would need physical rehab if he sat his monkey ass on a video game all the time! We have kids and responsibilities.

Poor OP if you dont get your shit together now its gonna be a long hard road when the baby comes and you are moody and flabby and sleep deprived and that fool asks you to bring you some kool aid or something.... you'll probably go postal!

Quoting marilu rivera:“ I would throw his game in the garbage if he can't understand that its time to be a man and plan for your future.”

Why would you do that???





Sell the thing...mine as well make some money. 

Quoting I ♥ Gavin Lennox:“ Why would you do that??? Sell the thing...mine as well make some money. ”

Lol.... girl after my own heart!

He works full time too except his shift is 2-10pm so ya i mean I play FFXI too but not as much as him..i get bored to easy..lol and we cant really wait till the baby is here because we cant live with his mom after the baby is here..and i cant tell him to hit the road cuz it will only make things worse..i have threatened to throw his game in the trash but i cant bring myself to do it..i dont know i am gonna try talkin to him again and if i have to although i really dont want to i will have his mom talk to him and mayb knock some sense into him....i swear men are annoying more then not..

Quoting Amanda~Mommy-2-b~:“ He works full time too except his shift is 2-10pm so ya i mean I play FFXI too but not as much as him..i ... [snip!] ... dont want to i will have his mom talk to him and mayb knock some sense into him....i swear men are annoying more then not..”

So basically you should have said...... my man does the same shit everyday and I get tired of it when I feel like it but not all the time. I want him to change but he doesnt have too..... Im just venting about nothing really cuz thats just how it is. blahhhhhh

Quoting Amanda~Mommy-2-b~:“ He works full time too except his shift is 2-10pm so ya i mean I play FFXI too but not as much as him..i ... [snip!] ... dont want to i will have his mom talk to him and mayb knock some sense into him....i swear men are annoying more then not..”

How do you expect him to take you seriously if you have his mom talk to him about how you feel? In any kind of relationship you have to have communication.'

If you can't tell him how you feel and what you expect it's not going to work out. I know it's harsh but it's the truth. He has to respect the way you feel.