re: Can you believe this?

Quoting KatSepBaby:“ Well I am sorry to hear that happened to you... every case and circumstances are different though. Like I said before, if he did it once, he will do it again. And he will get caught.”

Let's hope about the getting caught part!

Quoting Excited for #2!!:“ Let's hope about the getting caught part!”

Criminals usually always get caught eventually. It may take them a few times, but they usually mess up somewhere along the way. The sad part with sexual assaults is that they are very underreported... usually 20% or less are reported.

Yeah I am praying to God that this is my ex's, even if he is an ass sometimes. He won't even tell his parents! I did take a plan b pill the night of the rape though, but I slept through my alarm to take the 2nd one and took it hours after. And Tom and I had used condoms as well but I was off birth control. So its all 50/50 chance my doctor said. No way of telling until the baby comes. It really sucks not knowing.

Quoting Haley (18 weeks left):“ Yeah I am praying to God that this is my ex's, even if he is an ass sometimes. He won't even tell his ... [snip!] ... birth control. So its all 50/50 chance my doctor said. No way of telling until the baby comes. It really sucks not knowing.”

Well, I would take the focus off of the whole daddy thing and try to focus more on you and the baby...you are beautiful and so worthwhile...I hope you know that and don't let this issue hurt you anymore than it already has.

Thanks. I try not to let it bother me or think about it, but my ex always throws it in my face what happened. I am so excited to be a mommy though. My family and church have been so helpful and I love coming here for all the love and support you girls give.