16 an pregoo {vent}

Me an my babys daddy we are not togther any more we got in a big figth last sunday an i havent talk to him since. I dont kwn what to do beacuse his family dosent kwn that am having a baby an am 25 weeks so last night I went to a carnival with my family an I saw one of his friends an he told me oh hey i heard that Manny(babys daddy) is in jail an I was like really i dont kwn i havent talk to him since last sunday hes like well that what they told me so i dont kwn what to do cuz my mom an dad think that hes family kwn an they dont i dont kwn if i should call an see whats up with him ? i feel really sad cuz i dont kwn whats going on an i feel like am to young to have a baby by myself well i am...................any ideas?

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Too early to call it?

Sounds like you were going to be without your baby daddy either way since you guys arent really talking... i was 16 when i had my first baby and my best advice is to not start drama, let his family know if he hasnt told them, but dont make it a big deal... and surround yourself with good people who will support you and help you through your pregnancy. Forget him, hell just put more stress on you it sounds like...

Take care of baby either way

Quoting WiFeY- MoMMy- PReGGo:“ Sounds like you were going to be without your baby daddy either way since you guys arent really talking... ... [snip!] ... people who will support you and help you through your pregnancy. Forget him, hell just put more stress on you it sounds like...”

that the thing i cant tell them i feel like if i do there going to think something else like is not his an i really dont want them to be mean to me

Quoting sands_sammy:“ Take care of baby either way”

oh i am my mom an dad are helping me am really glade they are but i want his dad to be part of his life....

Quoting ☆ Preggalicious :“ Me an my babys daddy we are not togther any more we got in a big figth last sunday an i havent talk to ... [snip!] ... sad cuz i dont kwn whats going on an i feel like am to young to have a baby by myself well i am...................any ideas?”

it's a little late now to wonder if you're too young to have a baby (by yourself or with anyone else). however you now can only do what you HAVE to do and take care of this baby regardless

Quoting WiFeY- MoMMy- PReGGo:“ Sounds like you were going to be without your baby daddy either way since you guys arent really talking... ... [snip!] ... people who will support you and help you through your pregnancy. Forget him, hell just put more stress on you it sounds like...”

I disagree. Don't let the family know. He is the one who needs to let the family know not her. If he doesn't than there is no forcing this baby into that family because you don't know how they are going to react to it. They might try to make her life hell you never know. He is in jail so obviously not the best role model for your child right now so maybe one day he will come around or you can force him to come around by taking him to court for child support but right now just worry about yourself because you don't need the added stress or any of his drama right now.

Quoting ☆ Preggalicious :“ that the thing i cant tell them i feel like if i do there going to think something else like is not his an i really dont want them to be mean to me”

Some of my baby daddys family was like that too... just tell the important people like his mom... and tell her "Look, im not trying to start drama, and please dont accuse me of it being someone elses, but im pregnant, and its ____ [whatever his name is]"

I think if you are calm and dont make a big hooha about it in front of everyone she will take you seriously...

Honestly youCAN do it on your own without the babys daddy.. I am.. used to bother me at first but I got over it.. finally realized I'm better off and neither of his parents know and I can go into labor any day now.. just do whats best for you and your baby and only be involved with people that will bring good things and support for you and the baby

Quoting Monica♥sMcKenzie:“ I disagree. Don't let the family know. He is the one who needs to let the family know not her. If he ... [snip!] ... child support but right now just worry about yourself because you don't need the added stress or any of his drama right now.”

What if he never tells?? They have a right to know!! And that baby has a right to know his dads family... if they make a big deal out of it at least she knows and they know... she can avoid them if need be... i have to avoid some of my baby daddys family and we are about to have our third...

Quoting Pirate Tink *EVIL BITCH*:“ it's a little late now to wonder if you're too young to have a baby (by yourself or with anyone else). however you now can only do what you HAVE to do and take care of this baby regardless”i kwn

i kwn am going to take care of it am workign try to save money an my parents are helping me

Quoting ☆ Preggalicious :“ i kwn am going to take care of it am workign try to save money an my parents are helping me”

that came off a little harsh   but you'll be a good mom with or without a daddy for the baby

Quoting Pirate Tink *EVIL BITCH*:“ that came off a little harsh   but you'll be a good mom with or without a daddy for the baby”

well i ben doing it by my self he hasnt give me money for nothing I dont have medicail an me an my parents have been paying for everything so it really dosent matter if hes there or not but i want his family to kwn

Quoting ☆ Preggalicious :“ well i ben doing it by my self he hasnt give me money for nothing I dont have medicail an me an my ... [snip!] ... an me an my parents have been paying for everything so it really dosent matter if hes there or not but i want his family to kwn”

My baby's father was 100% NOT involved. He didn't want anything to do with him. I told his sister and mom and they've seen his son more times than he has (which wasn't hard to do because he hasn't ever seen him).