re: baby?

if hes willing to have a kid with you, why isnt he willing to marry you first?

how will you get insurance?
does your parents cover your maternity?
how will you get insurance for your baby?
how will you pay for it?
how will you pay for day care?
who will watch your child when youre at school?
will you finish school?
what is your schools policy on pregnancy?
do you get maternity leave?
do you know what foods to avoid and why during pregnancy?
do you know where to get prenatals?
do you knwo what they are?
what do you do when they make you sick?
who will you live with, your parents or his?
will he move in with you or will yu arrange custody?
how do you think your parents are going to feel, if they wanted another baby in the house theyd have one. an accident is one thing but planning it and not having a plan is another.
who would your doctor be?
have you even ever gotten a pelvic exam?
how will you afford all of the stuff you need for a baby?
what if you have twins?
how will you afford all of the clothes you will go through not only during pregnancy but as your baby grows daily?
where will you work?
were will your boyfriend work?
do you know when to start rice cereal? solids? how?


let me know if i should ask more...

Quoting La Bella Vita ♥:“ if hes willing to have a kid with you, why isnt he willing to marry you first? how will you get insurance? ... [snip!] ... were will your boyfriend work? do you know when to start rice cereal? solids? how? let me know if i should ask more...”

you know those are all going to go unanswered!

Quoting La Bella Vita ♥:“ if hes willing to have a kid with you, why isnt he willing to marry you first? how will you get insurance? ... [snip!] ... were will your boyfriend work? do you know when to start rice cereal? solids? how? let me know if i should ask more...”

you gonna write a book on her, too?

You have all the time in the world to get pregnant !

Quoting Poofter.:“ you gonna write a book on her, too?”

did the point of that honestly fly over your head?

Quoting La Bella Vita ♥:“ did the point of that honestly fly over your head?”

No, I just wanted to know if in your chicken soup for the teen parent's soul sequel you were going to include teens who failed at being parents....

Quoting Poofter.:“ No, I just wanted to know if in your chicken soup for the teen parent's soul sequel you were going to include teens who failed at being parents....”

*snort*


Since i miss C's snorts.

dude....your screen name is the same name of the apartments we almost moved to LoL

Quoting Softballgirl91:“ Ok, well my boyfriend and I had a pregnancy scare 6 weeks ago. During that we discussed kids and all ... [snip!] ... crazy, but now I want to have a baby. It’s just this feeling I got. I haven’t told him and don’t know if I should. Any advice?”

You should def. have a baby!

Quoting Cole's mommy!:“ You should def. have a baby!”

I agree. Sounds like she is in the perfect situation to have a baby.
Boarding school, long distance three month relationship and no job. If that isn't the makings of a perfect familyI'm not surewhat is. Plus... obviously sheCAN take care of a baby. After all, she did help her mom out with her school-age siblings. Plus she can babysit for12 hours and not have to call the parents even once!!

This made me laugh my ass off. 





WTF are you thinking, OP???? WHY would you bring an innocent child into your crap situation?  Shit, when I was 16, the only decision I had to make for myself was what beach to hang out at. 

And babysitting is NOT the same thing. I come from a huge family and have been around babies my entire life, and it's NOT the same thing! Babies are not toys or accessories! 3 months with this guy?? You seriously need to put down the tube of airplane glue.  

Quoting Samantha Michelle:“ I agree. Sounds like she is in the perfect situation to have a baby. Boarding school, long distance ... [snip!] ... her mom out with her school-age siblings. Plus she can babysit for12 hours and not have to call the parents even once!! ”

ha ha...love you!

I hate when they try to say they know what it's like raising and supporting a baby because they "pretty much" raised their siblings. IT'S NOT THE FUCKING SAME AT ALL. Jesus Christ. I babysat my sister all the time but do you think I pretend to know how hard it will be to raise a child from birth? No. Do you know why? Because I haven't given birth or raised a child yet. Don't try having a baby. You don't know shit about it, like you think you do.

Gotta catch up!