i need ur opinion on teen pregnancy

well i have been getting comments form this one use (not sayin)...saying i SCREWED UP...do u think i screwed up ??im 16 and pregnant with my second baby..(first one ended in stillborn)..tell me wat ya think please

Thats a terribly hurtful thing for someone to say...

Quoting ♥ohhh Baby♥:“ well i have been getting comments form this one use (not sayin)...saying i SCREWED UP...do u think i ... [snip!] ... u think i screwed up ??im 16 and pregnant with my second baby..(first one ended in stillborn)..tell me wat ya think please”

this would be what i would call a STUPID QUESTION.  not that the question is stupid.  asking it HERE is stupid.  on many levels.

i give it 6 pages till TDC... though not a lot of TP Qs go there so i could be wrong.

Quoting ♥ohhh Baby♥:“ well i have been getting comments form this one use (not sayin)...saying i SCREWED UP...do u think i ... [snip!] ... u think i screwed up ??im 16 and pregnant with my second baby..(first one ended in stillborn)..tell me wat ya think please”

If you wanted a baby then you didn't screw up!! other people need to keep their mouths shut, just because they may not have felt ready at 16, doesn't gine them any right to judge you or your choices.

Quoting i poop rainbows:“ this would be what i would call a STUPID QUESTION. not that the question is stupid. asking it HERE ... [snip!] ... it HERE is stupid. on many levels. i give it 6 pages till TDC... though not a lot of TP Qs go there so i could be wrong.”

agreed.

Was it planned or unplanned?

if you were TTC at age 16, then yes. you screwed up.

Why is it Irishcuntbag automatically comes to mind when I read this topic?

Don't listen to them. Whoever they are, they're probably a douche.

Quoting ♥ohhh Baby♥:“ well i have been getting comments form this one use (not sayin)...saying i SCREWED UP...do u think i ... [snip!] ... u think i screwed up ??im 16 and pregnant with my second baby..(first one ended in stillborn)..tell me wat ya think please”

just curious, does the username begin with irish? lol anyway there are some jerks that just come on here to start drama with people... but no you didnt screw up at all... mistakes happen and at least your being responsible by keeping it and not getting an abortion.. im 17 and just had my first daughter and shes the best thing thats ever happened to me so shes the best screw up ive ever made lol

Quoting MommaLaLa:“ Thats a terribly hurtful thing for someone to say...”

i know that is y i wanted some other girls opinion on it cause it really bother me

Quoting Heather™:“ if you were TTC at age 16, then yes. you screwed up.”

 

Quoting ♥ohhh Baby♥:“ well i have been getting comments form this one use (not sayin)...saying i SCREWED UP...do u think i ... [snip!] ... u think i screwed up ??im 16 and pregnant with my second baby..(first one ended in stillborn)..tell me wat ya think please”

You are really young. I don't think what they said was right, but you should have been protecting yourself again pregnancy and such. You need to get an education and be able to take care of a baby.

I'm sorry for your loss... Best wishes.

If you think it's right or what you should be doing...why do you care if other people say that it was a mistake? I think that you shouldn't care what everyone else thinks and go about your business. But that's just my opinion on the topic.

oh dear..you shouldnt have asked that question because some people on here are very anti teen pregnancy..i can see this headed straight for TDC...but in my opinion if you can support yourself and your child and your child will be loved and taken care of all of its life then no you didnt screw up...

this is a really open ended question. it wasnt a smart decision, i assume that you either were not on birth control or didnt use condoms or both? like much of us in the same position. i dont think that was a smart decision, and i think your life wouldve taken a completely different and a much easier path had you of been more responsible but things like this happen. were you trying to concieve? were you with your pervious child? sorry to bring that up, i can only imagine how hard that must have been for you, but did you getpregnant this time the same way you did last time? i can see where people are coming from when they say things like that, though its a very one sided arguement she has.