Quoting *MOMMY&WIFE*:" jealous that he gets to go places everyday and not be stuck in the house and get up in the middle of ... [snip!] ... know he works to support us and get us by i just wish i could get a job to help out i wish our son was a little bit older ."
Um.....why do you allow him to leave and not help you, while you are stuck inside and getting up in the middle of the night every night?
It doesn't matter if he's providing financially, that doesn't mean he doesn't help you. He's just as responsible for that child as you are.
Stop accepting his bullsmurf behavior.
Who is stopping you from getting a job?