re: Dealing with ex....

<blockquote><b>Quoting Honda450:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mum to a Monster:</b>" No, There is something wrong with them, ... [snip!] ... it and talk to my kids! There is so much they do thy is wrong for punishments and things. But I just have to watch it all."</blockquote>

I would call cps again. That is just smurfing ridiculous. Something really bad could happen to those kids.

Quoting Honda450:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mum to a Monster:</b>" No, There is something wrong with them, ... [snip!] ... it and talk to my kids! There is so much they do thy is wrong for punishments and things. But I just have to watch it all."

And you are right. By the time they catch it something bad will have happened. But I would go to your Children Services Office and talk to them and express what is happening and that CPS and the police aren't doing anything and you fear for your children's safety. Show them your evidence and tell them what you said, just talk to your kids and they will confirm what happens at their dads.

I have heard nothing but horror stories about that man. He sounds like a complete jerk I would contact a lawyer it may help you get full custody also talk to the teachers and have them call you if the kids show up in rags. Document EVERYTHING for the lawyers and get witness statements from the teachers/administrators from the school that the days their father sends them to school they are showing up in rags

Oh my gosh! Sounds so close to my situation!!
I can finally give advice on this forum !!
Okay, my life was like that for about a year and a half. Finally, I sent her a really nice email explaining that I wanted to get along for everyone's sake. I admitted to my mistakes in the email, which really opened things up. She ended up doing the same. We ended up corresponding back and fourth for quite some time and today, things are great! Turns out, we both had many misconceptions and believes about each other that just weren't true and once we got to know each other, things really changed!! Now, we aren't facebook friends or go out together, because there has to be some degree of separation between families. Now, we call or text if there is a problem, rather than going to extremes. I don't even have to deal with my ex - I just talk to her !! Try is, Ashley!! I bet you it will work !!! Be positive, stay positive and try to make everything positive !!!