Quoting shell2890:" Yehh they have cows milk I just think it's the fact it's come from me and for some reason that makes ... [snip!] ... get a half hour break and don't drive so not an option I do sometimes co -sleep but have to be careful as OH is a smoker"If breastfeeding is important to you I would tell your parents that what he eats. Its just milk they are putting to much thought into where it came from. Its whats best for your child. As for pumping at work have you mentioned to your boss that you need time to pump? Are they willing to accommodate that.