WWYD?

If you had a friend that you made plans with a month in advance & they bailed out because they had to spend time with their boyfriend (who they see every weekend & y'all haven't seen eachother in months) wwyd?


I ask because I am in this situation. A friend of mine blows up my facebook on a daily basis saying she misses me & my son, wants to see us so badly, ect. But when the time comes to hangout, she bails out because she wants to hangout with her boyfriend. No big deal, whatever. But then goes on & on about how much she misses us minutes after. Idk if I should say something since she does this every time we make plans or just let it go. Keep in mind the plans are usually made by her. TIA for any advice given.

I would come out and tell her. I think its messed up to make plans and then bail unless it a good reason then I would understand. And if she has done this a lot I would for sure and tell her good luck

I had friends like that...had.

Tell her you don't want to hear about how much she misses you until she actually makes the effort to do something about it. And then actually follows through.

I always delete them on Facebook and move on. She's all talk.


You'll be surprised how little it phases her that you cut her out of your life, too.  

<blockquote><b>Quoting mommakatof3:</b>" I would come out and tell her. I think its messed up to make plans and then bail unless it a good reason ... [snip!] ... bail unless it a good reason then I would understand. And if she has done this a lot I would for sure and tell her good luck"</blockquote>




She does this every time. The only time she didn't bail she brought him with her. How should I go about saying it? I don't wanna seem like a bitch. But I definitely don't like getting ready, getting my son ready, and planning my day around our plans & then them getting cancelled kwim?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Supafly★:</b>" Tell her you don't want to hear about how much she misses you until she actually makes the effort to do something about it. And then actually follows through. "</blockquote>




That's exactly what I will say.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" I always delete them on Facebook and move on. She's all talk. You'll be surprised how little it phases her that you cut her out of your life, too.  "</blockquote>




You know, I have always wondered if she would even give a smurf. Depending on the way this conversations goes she may get deleted.

Just be real with her if she is ur friend then she wouldnt think ur being rude and so what if she does she is doing it to you. She might already think she is in the wrong but since your not sayin anything she is telling her self that its ok. Good luck hope it turns out

it sounds like your her friend so she will have one when she wants one. tell her how you feel then get rid of her, she obviously has you way down on the totem pole!

Thanks ladies!