TTC after a loss?

I wasn't sure where to post this as I don't most of my posts but I just miscarried on the 9th of this month. I was 5 weeks and 6 days pregnant. The doctor said if I wanted to go ahead and try again after three months. Well Here is the thing. My boyfriend had a vasectomy about a week before I found out I was pregnant. We have been talking about getting it reversed after the loss of this child but I don't know if i'm emotionally ready? Ever since I lost the baby it's been a lot of fighting between the both of us. Here is the other problem, he is about to get out of the army in the next 30-60 days and he has the opportunity to get his vasectomy reversed for more then likely free if he gets a referral from his doctor before he gets out. I'm a little bit confused on what I should do. Ever since I lost the baby I want another one more than ever. It would be my last because three for me is a good number. I am afraid I will lose this baby and I am thinking part of the reason I lost the baby is because when I had my son 2 1/2 months early he was born emergency c-section and the doctor told me from now on whenever I get pregnant my chances are extremely high for a difficult pregnancy. There is just so much to put into thought about this and I am not sure where to turn.

Im so sorry. I lost mine at 7 weeks the 26th of nov. Im kind of in the same boat but my husband didnt have the vasectomy he got exposed to sonething at work dk how to spell it but any way could make his sperm not work anymore. A starting wanting a baby again in January and have been trying ever since no luck and I know its only been a couple of months but im a person that my husband and just look at me and im prego lmao so worries it really did mess up his sperm... good luck on trying to figure it out sorry you have to hurry before he geys out to make ur mind up and sorry its a high risk pregnancy aslo if tou choose to gey pregnant good luck hope everything goes good

I do not know why the army would pay to have his vesectomy reversed, but since you are unsure I would have it reversed and get on BC until you decide.

<blockquote><b>Quoting NicoleKMK:</b>" I wasn't sure where to post this as I don't most of my posts but I just miscarried on the 9th of this ... [snip!] ... high for a difficult pregnancy. There is just so much to put into thought about this and I am not sure where to turn. "</blockquote>




Well we tried off and on after our first loss at 6 weeks and it took a year. The first baby we lost was due april 1st and dd was born april 3rd a year later. It was so hard because I was thinking I would have been doing this a year ago all the dates were lined up of finding out the sex ets but I'm happy I finally got a healthy baby

Good luck on whatever you decide

Quoting mommakatof3:" Im so sorry. I lost mine at 7 weeks the 26th of nov. Im kind of in the same boat but my husband didnt ... [snip!] ... to make ur mind up and sorry its a high risk pregnancy aslo if tou choose to gey pregnant good luck hope everything goes good"

I'm sorry that happened to you and thank you. I hope it all works out for you as well. :-)

Quoting Smartass *Preggo!*:" I do not know why the army would pay to have his vesectomy reversed, but since you are unsure I would have it reversed and get on BC until you decide."

Well he didn't pay to have it done and we heard from other people that he should be able to get a referral but i'm not sure....but the BC idea is a good one thank you.

Quoting Maebaby2012+1:" <blockquote><b>Quoting NicoleKMK:</b>" I wasn't sure where to post this as I don't ... [snip!] ... dates were lined up of finding out the sex ets but I'm happy I finally got a healthy baby Good luck on whatever you decide"

It really took that long? :-( I'm sorry but I am happy for you and congrats on your healthy baby. :-)

<blockquote><b>Quoting NicoleKMK:</b>" It really took that long? :-( I'm sorry but I am happy for you and congrats on your healthy baby. :-) "</blockquote>




Well I was only with dh for 4 months so ttc was hard he was at basic and tech school