Really wish I had a maid

Right about now. I have a ragging headache. I'm hungry. And have to clean the kitchen. Never mind the massive amount of laundry! Seriously.

Plus I talked to my drug addict sister tonight. She says, she hates everyone in the family for leaving her, letting her be homeless and not getting in touch.

A) I have called her. She doesn't answer. Doesn't return calls. So then she apologizes.
B) it's not my fault she does drugs and doesn't have a job. Well, she says, I have money. So I ask, how? No job no apt. Are you selling yourself? Dad silence.. No I'm selling pot.  
C) her boyfriend screams at her, so I tell her to leave him, ask if she can couch hop somewhere else. No. Where she's at is good. She's injecting drugs and smoking drugs. Taking speed, crack and heroin. AND the kicker? The house she's staying at has a little 5 year old.
D) I asked her if I could help her find treatment. Nope. She wants to use drugs. She doesn't need anyone to save her and she likes to use. Even though " they don't get her high"

Smurf that. And, if you think I'm a callous bitch because I won't offer my place to my homeless sister.. No. I am not having my kids exposed to that smurf.

I wouldn't open my door to my sister if she was using. If she's going to risk killing herself she can do it elsewhere. With drugs comes lying and stealing neither of which you care to deal with, I'm sure. It's not callous at all.

I'm sorry. It's BS how she is and Addicts are rough, my ex is one. Hope it gets easier, let it wait the cleaning can be finished tomorrow.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Angel [Mariah's Mommy]:</b>" I wouldn't open my door to my sister if she was using. If she's going to risk killing herself she can ... [snip!] ... do it elsewhere. With drugs comes lying and stealing neither of which you care to deal with, I'm sure. It's not callous at all."</blockquote>



She's mad because my BIL apparently blasted on FB she needs to throw away the needles and the pillowcases (whatever that means) I have no idea. I deleted her off of FB months ago. Which she is pissed about to. Because apparently I was *teaching her a lesson that isn't it working* no I deleted her off so she couldn't stalk my stuff to be honest.
Ugh! Whatever!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mum to a Monster:</b>" I'm sorry. It's BS how she is and Addicts are rough, my ex is one. Hope it gets easier, let it wait the cleaning can be finished tomorrow."</blockquote>



Her fiancé overdosed less than a year ago, in their house. She found him. She was sober. Went back out using and apparently this guy is boyfriend #2 in that time frame.

It's so stressful talking to her. Or rather, being talked to.

I wouldn't even think twice about letting her stay at my house. Ew. Your kids don't need to be around that, and she doesn't need you to enable her by letting her stay. I wouldn't feel bad any of that. If that's what she wants to do, then that's what she should do.

<blockquote><b>Quoting White Chocolate Milk:</b>" I wouldn't even think twice about letting her stay at my house. Ew. Your kids don't need to be around ... [snip!] ... her by letting her stay. I wouldn't feel bad any of that. If that's what she wants to do, then that's what she should do."</blockquote>

I agree 100%.