Scared of not being a good mommy

Hey ladies,
I am a mother of one and one on the way.. I still fear I will not be a good mommy when the second one is born because he's going to need my attention alot more then the first one... My second one has a heart defect and I have been so worried about him and I am trying to stay positive and trying to stay focus on my first DS and spend time with him as much as I can because I know when our second one is born its going to be hard... I just don't feel like a good mommy even though ppl tell me I am.. Any mommies out there that feel this way

Every mom feels that way, especially when you are walking into a tough situation.
Just like you figured out how to raise a newborn the first time, you will figure it out this time too.

Thank you I just am worried and I know my little one is getting jealous

<blockquote><b>Quoting Melissa Juel:</b>" Hey ladies, I am a mother of one and one on the way.. I still fear I will not be a good mommy when the ... [snip!] ... going to be hard... I just don't feel like a good mommy even though ppl tell me I am.. Any mommies out there that feel this way"</blockquote>

Lots if Mommies feel like its going to be hard to feel the same way about the 2nd child  Your situation is a little more stressful. You will be a great Mommy. You're anxious and worried its all normal.