posted 18th Mar
If your DH/SO is in the reserves, do you wish he wasn't. What benefit do you find in the reserves?
DH has a good job and really I find no benefit in the reserves. The money we benefit from is the GI bill which he has whether he re-enlists or not.
The only benefit I would find is if he deployed and made that money. But there are as many down sides to wipe out the financial benefit.