re: normally I dont ask questions like this...

Quoting .Colleen.:"   aka Russian Roulette"

 

Quoting .Colleen.:"   aka Russian Roulette"

 

DH tried to convince me not to get an IUD by suggesting this method. I was like "uuuuh no" and got the IUD anyway.

<blockquote><b>Quoting The Pretender:</b>" I don't know what to tell ya- my hubby has the same issue and I've met a few other guys that did too. ... [snip!] ... before him) and after everything was free and clear we started going to town. Is mirena a possibility for you? I loved mine."</blockquote>



I have an appointment in May to discuss my options. I have pcos on top of it so I dont know if mirena would be a good option. Usually high hormone pills are what keep me regular but clearly do nothing on keeping me from getting pregnant.

<blockquote><b>Quoting LIVE.OUT.LOUD:</b>" DH is like that. The condom goes on, he goes soft. I have no clue why. And he would try to play it off ... [snip!] ... tried an iud? Or depo? Nueva ring? I'm not sure what else you could try... good luck though! I hope everything works out :-)"</blockquote>



He did the same thing. He was so determined to get it hard again and it just wasnt happening. Then he started joking around and we got all silly and the mood was gone lol Im looking into some kind of iud but have to wait a few months until my appointment.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lady GooGoo™:</b>"   DH tried to convince me not to get an IUD by suggesting this method. I was like "uuuuh no" and got the IUD anyway."</blockquote>




Is that when you keep track of when you ovulate and avoid sex on those certain days or something?

Quoting :*:CHRiSTiNe:*::" <blockquote><b>Quoting .Colleen.:</b>" My husband said they feel kinda like a too-tight ... [snip!] ... gave up after like half an hour of trying. It was bad and even though he was laughing at the time I can tell his ego is hurt."

I'm glad you made the best of it, but no, it's not his fault

Quoting Blythe.:"  "

I need another kid like a damn hole in the head  

Quoting :*:CHRiSTiNe:*::" <blockquote><b>Quoting Lady GooGoo™:</b>"   DH tried to convince me not ... [snip!] ... Is that when you keep track of when you ovulate and avoid sex on those certain days or something?"

Yes. He wanted me to get ovulation tests and go through that all the time. I for one do NOT feel like dealing with that for the next 5 years(At LEAST). I got the 12 year copper IUD. Couldn't be happier with it!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lady GooGoo™:</b>" Yes. He wanted me to get ovulation tests and go through that all the time. I for one do NOT feel like ... [snip!] ... do NOT feel like dealing with that for the next 5 years(At LEAST). I got the 12 year copper IUD. Couldn't be happier with it!"</blockquote>


Ha thats crazy. I have pcos so I have no idea when I ovulate and I refuse to buy a million of those tests to do it. And holy crap they have a 12 year one now!? I thought the most was 5 years.

In reply to your first post:

So he goes soft as soon as he puts a condom on. Let's say I'm familiar with this problem. For me it was the relatively long fumbling around with the condom that killed my erection. The faster you get the condom on, the better. Opening the condom, looking where the right side is, being careful about putting it on the right way ... not very sexy activities.

Also: be sure to use the right condom size. If the condom is too small, it is a PITA (not literally, lol) and only adds to the unfavorable conditions.

On the following site you can enter the circumference and the length of the penis and it will suggest you the best fitting condoms.
http://condomerie.com/condooms-op-maat?___store=english

Quoting RollingStone:" In reply to your first post: So he goes soft as soon as he puts a condom on. Let's say I'm familiar ... [snip!] ... length of the penis and it will suggest you the best fitting condoms. http://condomerie.com/condooms-op-maat?___store=english"

Nice post thanks for that link!

There are other forms of birth control you can try... ?

<blockquote><b>Quoting RollingStone:</b>" In reply to your first post: So he goes soft as soon as he puts a condom on. Let's say I'm familiar ... [snip!] ... length of the penis and it will suggest you the best fitting condoms. http://condomerie.com/condooms-op-maat?___store=english"</blockquote>



Oh I know its far from sexy lol but I mean other guys are capable of having sex with condoms so I was thinking maybe its a mental thing for him? Maybe its to tight I really dont know. Im not a fan of condoms by any means but its our only option until I get an iud and pray that works. But thanks for the link. I will have to do some measuring!

Some guys don't work well with condoms!

Try getting a coil

<blockquote><b>Quoting Talena_caro:</b>" Some guys don't work well with condoms! Try getting a coil"</blockquote>




What is a coil?