Quoting Mann Makin' Mama[BBM]:" Intolerant is not being able to tolerate the proteins in the milk, being allergic means they're allergic ... [snip!] ... cream (besides italian ice), cake, ect. He was at a bday party and had a little bit of cake and ice cream and puked everywhere."
well the doctor said cheese doesn't have lactose. But to not give him milk, yogurt or ice cream or chocolate. She has us substituting yogurt with lactose free for him and soy for her , soy milk for both(because thats what WIC will give us, otherwise I'd use almond) and coconut ice cream by SOdelicious for events like birthday parties.