Quoting I love Kenzi:" if your hubby is the primary care giver wtf isnt he doing the majority of the housework?"
Quoting SAFFY™:" Because I have kid-free hours. Plus, he works full time and does most of the childcare so I don't mind doing the housework. It isn't much since our kids have their own chores."
Quoting I love Kenzi:" oh ok he works too i was going to say"
Quoting Blythe.:" yes he does, but he is a SAHD"
Quoting SAFFY™:" Yeah. He tends to shy away from housework because when he does it, I get so annoyed and just redo everything he just did. I'm particular about my house and where things go."
Quoting bia.:" That's me. "
Quoting SAFFY™:" It's just...on a site full of SAHMs, I'm starting to feel in the minority. I was a SAHM for 6.5 years ... [snip!] ... 6.5 years so it's an adjustment and I don't really know of anyone IRL whose spouse or SO does even a quarter of the childcare."
Quoting Blythe.:" It works for us. Yes I would love to be the one at home all the time with her but I work for my Dad's ... [snip!] ... it mine. The thing I do hate about it is that she wants him for everything, anytime she is hurt or scared she goes to daddy."That would bother me too.
Quoting SAFFY™:" That would bother me too. My kids have grown up with me so they go to whoever is available but their desire for daddy to do it is going up. I'm starting to feel useless. "