Eh if he is THAT atatched to his mother's opinions of his love life it's probably not going to work out in ya'lls favor anyway. I'd have a serious talk and let himknow it bothered me, and such, but most likely if it kept up and we "weren't that serious" I'd just cut my losses.
Edit to say, that was a general ya'll not ya'll specifically lol. I realize you said it wasn't you.
If his mom controls who comes to his house, I don't want much to do with him. And if he lives with his mom, I'm out. And if he can't sit down and talk to his mom and say "we're not serious. I'm not supporting her. We're seeing if we can make things work, so please back off and let me handle my own relationships" then I want nothing to do with him.
That early on, with all of that drama unless I was absolutely crazy about him then I would leave. Too much.. and no one deserves that. This isn't 1930.. tons of people are with other people that have children that aren't theirs.
His mom sounds like a real smurfing smurf **pardon my french
Quoting [♥]Mrs. Morgan:" I think I would leave him if he wasn't defending me..."
I agree. i'd run for the hills. IMO a man who is obsessed with his mothers opinion and goes with it about EVERYTHING... yeah not for me. Dated a dude like that before I met DH. Hahaha DH was actually his best friend at the time too.
But anyway. Yeah, I wouldn't stay with him. If he isn't defending me at all, I guess I would find myself wondering if he's starting to believe what his mother is saying.
It's not worth it.
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