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How old is the other kid?

Quoting Mommy2Kay:" How old is the other kid?"

same age.

Then as long as the other parent is on top of it as you are, they will both stop. They are little and it really doesn't mean anything but just make sure that your daughter understand it shouldn't be done and before they get together you remind her. You can also tell her to come to you when the other kid wants to do it.

Or maybe make it into something gross lol. Tell her about how much germs other people have in their mouths and that she can get sick from it, it is the truth.

Honestly it sounds totally normal for a child her age from my experience. I would just keep telling her that it's not ok, and maybe explain why. Such as, (what I tell my boys) it's very rude to be kissing a boy or girl when you're so little and you need to show your friends and yourself more respect than that. Of course at her age she'll be a little lost as to some of this, but the more you tell her the better she'll remember it when she's older. My 3 yo is still a little confused about this, but now that my oldest is 6 he had a girl try to kiss him and he told her that was disrespectful and wouldn't let her kiss him anywhere but the hand. Also though, if you have any concerns about her doing things like that that you think are inappropriate for her age and aren't sure where it's being learned I would suggest contacting DCFS or similar and tell them that your child is displaying inappropriate behavior and that you'd like them to do an interview with her. They will have a professional do this that knows what to ask and can give you advice too.

Quoting Mommy2Kay:" Then as long as the other parent is on top of it as you are, they will both stop. They are little and ... [snip!] ... gross lol. Tell her about how much germs other people have in their mouths and that she can get sick from it, it is the truth."

Should we not let them play hiding games unless we can see them until we know they arent doing it anymore?

Quoting Smokey_Taboo:" Should we not let them play hiding games unless we can see them until we know they arent doing it anymore?"

I wouldn't let them do it anymore. Seems like they think it's more than ok now.

A baby monitor might help with this. Just don't let the kids know you put it in the room and hide it so they don't see it and you can keep an eye on them without them knowing. Plus, you can tell them you see everything and that's how you know, and that helps a lot later when you can't always be there because they think if they do something you'll somehow just know!

Quoting JenD3115:" Honestly it sounds totally normal for a child her age from my experience. I would just keep telling her ... [snip!] ... them to do an interview with her. They will have a professional do this that knows what to ask and can give you advice too."

Why would a child need DCFS for kissing?

It is a phase, tell her Mom and Dad kiss to show love, and she shouldnt be kissing other people unless it is her parents, and tell her that other people have germs and kissing people that arent her parents could make her sick. It will stop.

Quoting JenD3115:" Honestly it sounds totally normal for a child her age from my experience. I would just keep telling her ... [snip!] ... them to do an interview with her. They will have a professional do this that knows what to ask and can give you advice too."

I feel likes it pretty normal I remember cashing boys and kissing them in kindergarden lol.

Whats DCFS and what do they do?

Quoting Smokey_Taboo:" I feel likes it pretty normal I remember cashing boys and kissing them in kindergarden lol. Whats DCFS and what do they do?"

DCFS is child welfare, they can take your kids from you if they think your abusing them.

Quoting ☆ohemgee☆:" I wouldn't let them do it anymore. Seems like they think it's more than ok now."

They have only dont it twice, they have always been affectionate with one another and I dont wanna discourage that. They have always cuddled and given kisses on the cheek when they see eachother.
Like I said I dont wanna shame her, I just want to keep her safe now and in the future.

Quoting Smokey_Taboo:" They have only dont it twice, they have always been affectionate with one another and I dont wanna discourage ... [snip!] ... on the cheek when they see eachother. Like I said I dont wanna shame her, I just want to keep her safe now and in the future. "

Tell her hugs are ok, and she can hold his hand, but kissing is something that Mommies and Daddies do.

Quoting Dr.Clandestine:" Why would a child need DCFS for kissing? It is a phase, tell her Mom and Dad kiss to show love, and ... [snip!] ... parents, and tell her that other people have germs and kissing people that arent her parents could make her sick. It will stop."

Thank you this is great advice, I will tell her this. She has always seen us be close and same goes for the other kid. I really dont want to make kissing taboo.