Quoting ☠Jenniefahhh:" If his dad is a loser, you're exactly what he deserves. He doesn't deserve a loser who will be in and out. One day he'll understand. My daughter is finally understanding that her dad is a POS."
Well, that's the part I'm so worried about explaining. His biological father was a rapist, but I was engaged at the time and that guy gave it his best shot, but he just wasn't able to deal with everything. I consider that guy to be his Dad. Even after we split up he still tried to stay in his life, until this drama with his parents a year and a half ago. I haven't heard from him since.