Quoting ChubbyCheekers™:" Why does everybody come into the Teen Pregnancy forum just to bash teenage parents? Like, they should ... [snip!] ... forum is FOR. I didn't necessarily translate "impatient" as "excited"...just that she' wants to know one way or the other..."
I try not to bash, unless they're being completely ridiculous, like that girl that TTC'ed her 2nd baby at 17 with no way to provide for her baby... THAT is something nobody should act like is okay.
This girl made a mistake and is living with the consequences, and actually seems to have a halfway decent plan in order to finish school and to take care of her baby. More power to her if she follows through with her goals!
I think girls get bashed here more often than other threads because they're young and inexperienced and *usually* have no idea what they're doing and have outrageous fantasies of what it's like to raise a child, so the women on here give them a much needed reality check.