re: IMPATIENT

Quoting Totheendandback:" not giving my child up for adoption but thank you for the luck"

Do you know how you are going to raise this child? where? Hopefully you at least have a job and a license..??

Quoting Totheendandback:" not giving my child up for adoption but thank you for the luck"

That's fine to, but like I said, just prepare yourself for drastic life changes. It's do-able, and hopefully you will have family support. It's going to be incredibly difficult, but it can be done with LOTS of determination and drive. Hope you've got a great support system, and don't forget birth control after baby comes! Accidents happen, but please learn from this.

Quoting Totheendandback:" thanks, no I did not try for this my dad just passed away been so depressed can barely get out of bed ... [snip!] ... 2 months ago this is not good news but I am going to do the best I can and make my dad proud hopefully by being a good mom. "

This is crazy similar to my situation except at 18. Sorry for your loss, good luck with the baby.

Quoting October2011:" Do you know how you are going to raise this child? where? Hopefully you at least have a job and a license..??"

no no and no and yes I do have a license, my bf is older has a job his own place would depend on him for things honestly for a while...he would have to take care of things

we talked about me moving in with him, we talked about getting married, and me doing the SAHM thing but yeah we do not really have a plan for now but he does not do bad at all so ..

Congrats?

Quoting Totheendandback:" no no and no and yes I do have a license, my bf is older has a job his own place would depend on him ... [snip!] ... getting married, and me doing the SAHM thing but yeah we do not really have a plan for now but he does not do bad at all so .."

Please do not get married at 16.

Good luck with everything. You should start looking for a job.

Quoting Totheendandback:" I did not yell at everyone that is not true at all.."

Bullsmurf, one of the first things you said were "how dare you! not the smurf they arent." and then proceeded to be mad because you didn't hear what you wanted. You're just a teeny bopper, you shouldn't WANT to be pregnant and throw your life away. This child will now run your life and you shouldn't be having a kid with the way you're acting in your posts. Then again it is your life and if you want to give up everything go for it, because in the end this doesn't effect me it effects you and your going to be the one struggling with not being able to be a teenager and affording everything. Remember babies don't stay babies, they grow up and you have to make sure you're ready for the lifetime responsibility.

Quoting Karissa Grindeland:" Bullsmurf, one of the first things you said were "how dare you! not the smurf they arent." and then proceeded ... [snip!] ... Remember babies don't stay babies, they grow up and you have to make sure you're ready for the lifetime responsibility."

I got mad at one person not everyoe I then apologized and did not do it again you are not telling the truth and I snapped at one person because i have a lot going on as I said just lost my dad in a horrific way and am having a hard time dealing with it

i apologized do not know what more you want ... it was not a big deal

Quoting Totheendandback:" no no and no and yes I do have a license, my bf is older has a job his own place would depend on him ... [snip!] ... getting married, and me doing the SAHM thing but yeah we do not really have a plan for now but he does not do bad at all so .."

What about school?

Quoting mαkαnαni:" What about school?"

 

Quoting mαkαnαni:" What about school?"

would still go to school ..

Quoting Totheendandback:" would still go to school .."

Who would watch the baby while your at school and he's at work? Daycare is expensive.

Quoting Rafael's Mommy ♥:" Who would watch the baby while your at school and he's at work? Daycare is expensive."

If your grades are good enough you can go to charter school here which is great for moms since I will be able to do a lot of my schooling at home only having to go into school very little and will be able to bring my baby, already looked into it... alternative schools have classes where the moms can take their kids in the classes with them like mom classes for teenmoms which is my 2nd bet

I will be enrolling in charter my grades are good enough always wanted to go to charter schol and I have a laptop so no problem and no daycare

Quoting Totheendandback:" If your grades are good enough you can go to charter school here which is great for moms since I will ... [snip!] ... in charter my grades are good enough always wanted to go to charter schol and I have a laptop so no problem and no daycare"

That's good. Just stay motivated...it will be hard, but worth it.

If u ever have any questions or just need to talk to someone feel free to PM me