re: TTC for over a year

Quoting Katie & Clay's Mommy!:" I'll talk to my doctor about it. She asured me when she did my surgery that my tubes were clear. That ... [snip!] ... we'll get my hubby checked out first and see what his results are then if he's fine I'll look into myself and see whats wrong."

Yeah I would start there.

Quoting Amelia Margaret:" Yeah I would start there."

I mean I've researched what can cause blocked ovaries and nothing I've read really pertains to me such as infections or anything like scar tissue. When my doc did my surgery I asked her about scar tissue because I was worried about that blocking my tubes and she said there wasn't any. But I think I'll do whatever it takes to make sure we're both healthy. She did say she looked at both of my tubes when she was in there. She said both were fine. I told her my worries. But I'm gonna call and make an appointment with her probably within the next 3 weeks since we're going on vacation in March. Also gonna get my hubby in with a doctor to get his tests ordered.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Katie & Clay's Mommy!:</b>" I mean I've researched what can cause blocked ovaries and nothing I've read really pertains to me such ... [snip!] ... the next 3 weeks since we're going on vacation in March. Also gonna get my hubby in with a doctor to get his tests ordered."</blockquote>


Any type of abdominal surgery if its near your tubes can cause damage as well

Good luck though I'm sure you're fine! Just never hurts to cover ALL bases

Quoting SmashedPumpkin:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Katie & Clay's Mommy!:</b>" I mean I've researched what can ... [snip!] ... if its near your tubes can cause damage as well Good luck though I'm sure you're fine! Just never hurts to cover ALL bases"

This is true. I mean healthy couples have sometimes taken more than a year to have children and nothing is wrong with them. My husband's aunt tried for 3 years before she finally got pregnant for the last time. She's healthy and don't have any issues. Her husband has diabetes but his sperm is fine. I know this cuz we've had the discussion lol. So I'm not gonna worry too much but I hope my tubes are fine and they aren't blocked. I'll call tomorrow and make an appointment with my doctor to see when she can see me. I might have to make up an issue just for her to see me. I can tell her I am still not getting positive opks even though it's a fib. I took one earlier and the test line is right in there with the control. It's like on the borderline of positive. My urine was diluted though. But she did tell me if we got to the year mark without success to go see her.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Katie & Clay's Mommy!:</b>" This is true. I mean healthy couples have sometimes taken more than a year to have children and nothing ... [snip!] ... of positive. My urine was diluted though. But she did tell me if we got to the year mark without success to go see her."</blockquote>


That's good!!yeah for some reason even the healthiest of people have trouble. Could just be due to stress and other random things who knows!

Quoting SmashedPumpkin:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Katie & Clay's Mommy!:</b>" This is true. I mean healthy couples ... [snip!] ... for some reason even the healthiest of people have trouble. Could just be due to stress and other random things who knows!"

Yea who the hell knows except God. But I think I'll be ovulating soon. I have some really good EWCM right now and my right side is killing me. Thank God for it too cuz up until October I didn't feel any of this. So maybe it's a good sign.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Katie & Clay's Mommy!:</b>" Yea who the hell knows except God. But I think I'll be ovulating soon. I have some really good EWCM right ... [snip!] ... my right side is killing me. Thank God for it too cuz up until October I didn't feel any of this. So maybe it's a good sign."</blockquote>



Good deal!!! BD as much as possible! You have opks?
Also helps to feel about for your cervix. If you can't feel it,'it's up high, which is good cause it slips up there for O. I felt mine last night and its so low I didn't know what to think of myself I was so stunned lol
Good luck to you mama!

Thought I would share with you all http://i1311.photobucket.com/albums/s671/blaque_barbiie0789/A527FEDA-07DC-47FA-986C-FA5D7BD36B08-4470-000002F7D6571688_zps7bed02de.jpg

Quoting SmashedPumpkin:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Katie & Clay's Mommy!:</b>" Yea who the hell knows except God. ... [snip!] ... for O. I felt mine last night and its so low I didn't know what to think of myself I was so stunned lol Good luck to you mama!"

Yea I had some. I just finished the bottle. I got one that was the same color as the control line one evening and the next day when I tested it was still around there just a bit lighter but I know my urine was diluted. I also felt my right sided pains and I had a ton of EWCM when I slipped my finger out of my vayjay. So I think I ovulated yesterday. I guess I'll see if AF shows her face in 10 to 14 days since that's been the guideline of my luteal phase. It's been 10dpo for the last 3 months. So we shall see. If it's longer than 14 days I know I didn't ovulate. But this is the last pack of opks I'm getting. I want my rainbow but I'm tired of stressing. I want to be sure I'm ovulating but having 4 months of the positive opks and the right sided pains I can pretty much be sure I am so I don't need the opks anymore. I'll only buy them if I find I have a month where I don't get these pains or any sign of ovulation. I do check my cervix also. It was high and soft day before yesterday and yesterday morning.

Quoting Artie Russell:" Thought I would share with you all http://i1311.photobucket.com/albums/s671/blaque_barbiie0789/A527FEDA-07DC-47FA-986C-FA5D7BD36B08-4470-000002F7D6571688_zps7bed02de.jpg"

Congrats. How long have you been trying for this one?

It took 8 months which I thought it would take a year thanks

Quoting Artie Russell:" It took 8 months which I thought it would take a year thanks"

That's not too bad. It's a year this month for us. Too two months the last pregnancy. Got preggo in Sept. and mc in Dec. 2011 and started back ttc in January after I stopped bleeding. Had a few issues along the way though with a few months off and on with no ovulation but for the last 4 months I've been ovulating. So hopefully my body is getting back to normal.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Katie & Clay's Mommy!:</b>" That's not too bad. It's a year this month for us. Too two months the last pregnancy. Got preggo in ... [snip!] ... off and on with no ovulation but for the last 4 months I've been ovulating. So hopefully my body is getting back to normal."</blockquote>




Well good luck baby dust all over you  

Quoting Artie Russell:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Katie & Clay's Mommy!:</b>" That's not too bad. It's a year ... [snip!] ... ovulating. So hopefully my body is getting back to normal."</blockquote> Well good luck baby dust all over you  "

Thank you. Hope you have a sticky baby and a healthy pregnancy.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Katie & Clay's Mommy!:</b>" Yea I had some. I just finished the bottle. I got one that was the same color as the control line one ... [snip!] ... pains or any sign of ovulation. I do check my cervix also. It was high and soft day before yesterday and yesterday morning."</blockquote>



Maybe your LP had something to do with it? I was told an LP shorter than either 12-14 days would make it really hard to conceive. I'm not quite sure about it though