re: TTC for over a year

<blockquote><b>Quoting Katie & Clay's Mommy!:</b>" It is but sometimes my mind goes off of it. Sometimes I don't even think about having a baby at all. ... [snip!] ... I want to do or accomplish before having a baby and that might help me take my mind off of wanting one. Seems like a good idea."</blockquote>




Yeah that does sound like a good Idea, could help you relax more. I know what you mean when you see a pregnant woman or baby, it's sad but hopefully soon things will happen  

af late, might get clomid and try if af stays away until closer to appt. having ton of streatchy cm

Quoting Katie & Clay's Mommy!:" I hope so for you too. I still don't know when I'm supposed to ovulate. Last month it was on CD19. It ... [snip!] ... feel the pain. I told him last night he needs to deal with it and let it out instead of trying to make as if everything is ok."

well I don't know either, the only reason I think I may have ovulated on dec 5-6 is because of the changes in my discharge. For all I know it was just random occurence and I am getting my hopes up for nothing. I really hope if it is nothing at least the vitex I am taking will help. my estimated day for AF is the 19th (two weeks post ovulation), so I plan to use a doller tree test on the 22nd if I have not gotten AF by then.
Good luck to you, too I really hope your cycles sort themselves out for you. How is that fertility blend working for you so far? Does it also take a few weeks to months to start working like the vitex?

I was TTC and i did and had my baby. I went to the doc to see what was wrong because it did take almost a yr. She said of course you must wait over a yr before trying to do anything. Well before i left she said to try fish oil pills so i did for over a month and within a month if that i got pregnant. So i would try fish oil it worked for me.

Quoting Ivana*mommy of two*:" well I don't know either, the only reason I think I may have ovulated on dec 5-6 is because of the changes ... [snip!] ... is that fertility blend working for you so far? Does it also take a few weeks to months to start working like the vitex? "

Yes Fertility blend does take a month or so. You can increase the amount you take in the first month to increase the effectiveness. My hubby threw the bottle away like a jackass so he hasn't been using it so I put him not getting any for 2 days then having sex the third day. It'll show his ass. He should have just taken the darn pills.

Quoting Dana Houle:" I was TTC and i did and had my baby. I went to the doc to see what was wrong because it did take almost ... [snip!] ... fish oil pills so i did for over a month and within a month if that i got pregnant. So i would try fish oil it worked for me."

Did your doctor say what exactly the fish oil does to help you get pregnant? I've never heard of fish oil. I've heard of primose oil to help with CM and stuff.

af not showing up or bfp, think thyroid too messed up to bring either

I read up on the fish oil earlier. I got some pretty good info. I'm so sick of buying pills. I wanna try vitex, fertility blend for men and women, now hearing of this I'd like to try it since I know I'm not getting enough Omega 3. But I don't think the problem is really me though. I think something may be wrong with my husband. I think he may have either low sperm count or testosterone.

Quoting Katie & Clay's Mommy!:" I read up on the fish oil earlier. I got some pretty good info. I'm so sick of buying pills. I wanna ... [snip!] ... really me though. I think something may be wrong with my husband. I think he may have either low sperm count or testosterone."

give it a try wont hurt anything. if something is wrong with ur husband have him tested. doc was gonna do that to if i hit the yr mark.

that's interesting, I have never heard of fish oil to aid with fertility.
Hmm anyways so my symptoms have continued to change. More random cramping and twinges of pain in my pelvic region. The past week or so I have had 3 acne breakouts on my chin. nose, and back! Driving me crazy! I used to get acne bad in high school, but never in my 20s. I got some acne with both of my previous pregnancies, but also a pimple or two before AF. So I guess it could be either one. ( I will be sorta sad, but glad for AF!)
I took dollar tree tests one each day for the past three days, (10,11,12DPO) all BFN, but the one I took today with FMU if I tilted it a certain way I could see an indent or faint line where the test line should be(not so with the previous two) . Looking at it straight on it is very Negative, (so no point in posting it in line spotters), but with my son, the dollar tree test gave me a neagtive but I got a faint positive with a FRER, earlier that same day. I am afraid to take a FRER due to the evap lines I have been hearing about. I feel like I could be pregnant, but I don't know if it's just me hoping I am pregnant or what. ugh this is most into TTC I have been this entire year of trying! I have had moodiness, painful nipples while nursing, fullish feeling breasts(but since im still nursing, idk..) last night I had a very vivid dream, which since my son was born I have not slept well enough to really dream so I found that strange as well. I told my hubby this morning that I think I just need to use a better test and he says "well, do you feel like you're pregnant?" And my instant thought was "yeah" but I said "well yeah kinda, but idk if it's just that i really WANT to be so that's why i feel like I might be, idk" ugh!! haha with my other two I also had this feeling that I just was, and when I had late periods before and my hubby would joke "omg you're pregnant" I always knew that I wasn't. One BFN and I was confident that I'm not pregnant, but here I am 3 BFNs, and I can't get over it!!!
I just don't know, either way I hope AF or a BFP comes within the next week or so or I will be so discouraged. Without AF I have no starting point at all to continue TTC. I am still taking Vitex 800 mg daily! I feel crazy right now.

ok my insincts were right. I took a dollar tree test today and it was very faintly positive!   I must be around 12-13DPO.
http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10100197817264562&set=pb.15104543.-2207520000.1355846486&type=3&theater

Quoting Ivana, expecting #3!:" ok my insincts were right. I took a dollar tree test today and it was very faintly positive!   I must ... [snip!] ... http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10100197817264562&set=pb.15104543.-2207520000.1355846486&type=3&theater"

Congratulations.

Just took a pregnancy test today after AF was late yesterday and my boobs hurt and i got a clear positive but it was a little faint so i am going to test again in a couple days.

Quoting Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy:" Just took a pregnancy test today after AF was late yesterday and my boobs hurt and i got a clear positive but it was a little faint so i am going to test again in a couple days."

Congratulations!!!!