re: TTC for over a year

hi im new here we have been ttc for 1 year now im 35 they done blood test on day 21 of my cycle and i also had a transvaginal scan done to see if there is anything is wrong im still waiting on these results .. 
anyone know what tests are next ? its hard to stay positive
this is my first time joining a site like this . hope to hear from you soon  

And so it begins. I started charting again this month to optomize our chances and hopefully minimize our wait time for nother baby and of course I didn't listen to my instincts and we missed when I ovulated and now my chart is going all spastic. YIPPEE. I hate that we have to start all over again.

End vent.

Quoting Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy:" Well now its 11months TTC and this month we didn't have any luck. AF came yesterday, and it really got ... [snip!] ... she is pregnant and her LO is turning 1. How do i keep SO from getting the blues, every month that goes by with false tests?"

Theres not really anything unless you stop talking/thinking about it. I just had my 4th miscarriage in June which sent my DH overboard and it didn't help that 2 weeks later my sister had her twins. They go through emotions like we do...sometimes I think we have to be the stronger ones for them even though it all happens to use physically, they are so mentally attached to you and wanting that LO.

Quoting Hopeful and Optomistic!:" Theres not really anything unless you stop talking/thinking about it. I just had my 4th miscarriage in ... [snip!] ... stronger ones for them even though it all happens to use physically, they are so mentally attached to you and wanting that LO."

Makes since... And then women always seem to have to be the strongest in situations like this.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lady~Dee:</b>" Yea i think it is....what do they do?? I'm scared of pain lol"</blockquote>




Mine didn't hurt at all. Ask them to numb ur cervix.

I know most of you ladies are seeing RE (is that the right acronym?) but are there any ladies that are not seeing fertility specialists? I do not qualify because of my age, our successes in the past two years, and there not being a reason behind our miscarriages. I was just curious.

I know most of you ladies are seeing RE (is that the right acronym?) but are there any ladies that are not seeing fertility specialists? I do not qualify because of my age, our successes in the past two years, and there not being a reason behind our miscarriages. I was just curious.

Quoting ~:Ashley{AIMZ}:~:" I know most of you ladies are seeing RE (is that the right acronym?) but are there any ladies that are ... [snip!] ... of my age, our successes in the past two years, and there not being a reason behind our miscarriages. I was just curious. "

SO and i haven't seen anyone about fertility yet. We are going to continue to try and after we are married if nothing changes we are going to see a fertility doctor.
What is your age that you can not see one

Quoting ~:Ashley{AIMZ}:~:" I know most of you ladies are seeing RE (is that the right acronym?) but are there any ladies that are ... [snip!] ... of my age, our successes in the past two years, and there not being a reason behind our miscarriages. I was just curious. "

We haven't seen anyone, I was trying to avoid medical, but after losing 5 pregnancies, it's getting to seem like the only option.

Quoting ~:Ashley{AIMZ}:~:" I know most of you ladies are seeing RE (is that the right acronym?) but are there any ladies that are ... [snip!] ... of my age, our successes in the past two years, and there not being a reason behind our miscarriages. I was just curious. "

Only thing I have done is see a new OB. She has suggested seeing an RE but insurance doesn't cover it so we just have to pray and try on our own.

Quoting Nanna Boo Boo's Mommy:" SO and i haven't seen anyone about fertility yet. We are going to continue to try and after we are married ... [snip!] ... and after we are married if nothing changes we are going to see a fertility doctor. What is your age that you can not see one"

I'm 26 and I ovulate regularly so my midwife says she sees no reason behind us not being able to conceive. Had I not gotten pregnant with Theo she would have sent us to see a specialist but we did so we are quite literally at square one. We have to wait another year without conceiving to have our fertlity issues at looked at.

So no IUI tomorrow  I have 3 follicles 16.5mm, 13.6mm, 15.3mm. But I also have a HUGE cyst on my left ovary, like almost the size of my uterus huge. I go back on CD5 to see if it's gone down, and no IUI until it's gone. She said if it's still there in 3 months I may have to have surgery and that I need to keep an eye open for symptoms of ovarian torsion.

Quoting CuteExplodenKitties:" So no IUI tomorrow  I have 3 follicles 16.5mm, 13.6mm, 15.3mm. But I also have a HUGE cyst on my left ... [snip!] ... if it's still there in 3 months I may have to have surgery and that I need to keep an eye open for symptoms of ovarian torsion."

Sorry to hear that, hope it goes away on it's own!

Quoting CuteExplodenKitties:" So no IUI tomorrow  I have 3 follicles 16.5mm, 13.6mm, 15.3mm. But I also have a HUGE cyst on my left ... [snip!] ... if it's still there in 3 months I may have to have surgery and that I need to keep an eye open for symptoms of ovarian torsion."

I just had surgery done on my right ovary for a 5.6cm cyst. It wasn't that bad. It hurt like hell for about a week but I healed pretty quickly. I'm sure everything will be ok. I hope it goes down though before surgery. GL

For those of you that have had cysts did your dr give you birth control? and if do did it help? Also what size was it and did it have to be surgically removed?