I would really think about what your doing before you do it.. Abortion is a serious decision and you need to think about how you will feel afterwards. I personally dont think I could live with myself. I mean its not the babys fault you got pregannt, so why should the baby be punished. There are so many women out there that would love to have a baby and cant. Why not do adoption. Tell your family it was a one night stand and give the baby a chance at life and give another woman a chance to be a mother. Im not trying to be mean but if your relationship is so complicated why not take measures to prevent pregnancy like birth control and condoms?