idk what to do trigger maybe

I'm due soon and I'll be delivering for the 2nd time in a city filled with my family. Now I'm just concerned about visitors when I'm in the hospital. My husband doesn't really like my side of the family but he doesn't mind them except two people. My grandparents. He is iffy about my grandmother visiting but he absolutely doesn't want my grandfather visiting which I understand because he's a child predator. He molested my mother and tried on me and my sister and know he slept with one of my underage cousins but in our family they just choose to ignore the bad. I just don't know how to say he's not welcome without causing a big ol drama cause no one believes anything bad happened. The last thing I want is drama after I deliver l. (dh doesn't like my grandmother because when I let it out I had been molested by my step father she said it was my fault I provoked him) I know what the right thing is to do but idk how to even say don't come your not invited? They are still my family, I rarely see them eexcept o in public like family parties. Advice please?

Just don't call them? Tell the nurses they are NOT allowed to visit.

dont tell them when you deliver and tell the nurses they are not allowed or get the balls to tell the smurfers off! neither the molester or the bitches who think its ok woould be around my baby

<blockquote><b>Quoting I love Kenzi:</b>" dont tell them when you deliver and tell the nurses they are not allowed or get the balls to tell the smurfers off! neither the molester or the bitches who think its ok woould be around my baby"</blockquote>


This!!

I may have to not call anyone but it's not that easy, I'm sure dh would call his family and I'd of course call my mother which I'm sure she'll call everyone. Tthat's the main thing I find odd, my mother will still visit them and everything taking my sister.. my family is just nuts.

I understand they're your family but I would be distancing myself from them for my child. Your family isn't right in the head.

Quoting It's so Fluffayy!:" I may have to not call anyone but it's not that easy, I'm sure dh would call his family and I'd of course ... [snip!] ... Tthat's the main thing I find odd, my mother will still visit them and everything taking my sister.. my family is just nuts."

your mom is condoning it and she is just as bad worse even bc she smurfing knows