Quoting Red Bottom:" You mean like how he proved to you he wasn't an addict for over a year? Why are you so eager to jump ... [snip!] ... Why are you so eager to jump back into trusting people who have given you every reason not to? You need to protect your child. "
Quoting Sam Lamb:" Not saying i was jumping back to him, i have no plans to get back with him. I was asking about his rights.."
Quoting Red Bottom:" You're nervous about him, but you're willing to let him take care of your child?"Makes me nervous on what the courts would say, i feel like you've never dealt with an addict before.. They will do ANYTHING to get what they want, drugs or anything else, if they want it they fixate and will have it. I am nervous because his daddy has money, and he has no proof of the arrest/charges or even the drug problem
Quoting Asher and Haddie's Mommy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Sam Lamb:</b>" He got it completely wiped from his record, like ... [snip!] ... that should be enough to prove that he has a severe substance abuse problem, which should be enough to grant you sole custody."Thats what i was hoping.. But as far as he says there is no record of it because he got it deffered?
Quoting Sam Lamb:" Makes me nervous on what the courts would say, i feel like you've never dealt with an addict before.. ... [snip!] ... and will have it. I am nervous because his daddy has money, and he has no proof of the arrest/charges or even the drug problem"
Quoting Sam Lamb:" i didnt say i was OPEN to anything! I was simply asking what his rights are so that i'd know what was going to be thrown at me when he gets down here."
Quoting Sam Lamb:" I had planned on it from the beginning... I just was wondering what kind of things would try and get thrown back at me"
Quoting Safka9973:" And what Red Bottom is saying is truly the best advice you can get. Don't read into as judgement. Find a way to fix your situation by assessing the changes you can make."
Quoting ♫ boobook ♫:" Drop the drunk. And focus on you and your baby. Things will come together. And it sounds like you need to take a dating break."