Quoting PurpleBama582:" I don't think you're wrong. If you don't want to talk to her, but aren't keeping your DH from talking to her or letting DD talk to her, I don't see a problem. "honestly, i'd rather her have NOTHING to do with DD. she's a horrible influence, but seeing as DH doesn't have a lot of family, esp on his dad's side, i want DD to know as much of her family as she can. and how much damage can someone in a whole other state with a state between us do? lol
Quoting pilot Jess:" I don't get along with my SIL, and I have nothing to do with her. Why should I be unhappy and uncomfortable? ... [snip!] ... what HE wants. Chances are he won't want you to have a fake relationship with her and will probably support how you feel."he says he'd like for us to get along but he knows mine and SIL's tempers, and the chances of arguments are high so he's not pushing it.
Quoting Draco'sStalker:" i basically loathe SIL. she lived with us for over a yr in '09, and she did A LOT of shaddy smurf (i won't ... [snip!] ... like she was there for mine!) i even told DH yesterday that if he wanted, he could Skype SIL so that she can see/talk to DD."
Quoting NICKEL☮POLIS:" She does seem pretty self absorbed. If she really cared about 'squashing smurf' for the sake of family ... [snip!] ... when you had your DD. What about her parents? Does she have a SO? Maybe she's scared of being alone now that she is pregnant."her mother passed away from cancer years ago, and her dad lives up here. she has a bunch of friends that she calls her family though and they've all got kids so i can't figure out what help she expects from me. her SO lives with her as far as i know.
Quoting VeggieBurglar:" Is there any chance she's matured and changed since you guys had issues? Has she apologized or made ... [snip!] ... hate each other, now that we weren't living together. We're not BFF's, by any means, but it's nice that there's no bad blood."see i didn't get along with BIL either but since he's moved out, we have nothing to fight about.