Quoting Mrs.Mud:" You're not giving your girls a "family", you're setting them up for a lifetime of disappointing, unfulfilling, ... [snip!] ... happy together and that it had nothing to do with them. They are 8 and 6 now, we divorced when they were 3 and 21 months."
I'm not setting my girls up to be "single mothers" that's rude to say... I don't argue or fight with him in there presence nor does he abuse me verbally or in any other way, I'm just unhappy because in some ways we are on two different paths, I'm not as happy as I feel I should be, and I feel like he takes me for granted because we've been together so long. I now that if this continues I WILL leave. so, I guess we'll see... but I understand where your coming from. and I will Always try to make smart decisions for my girls