re: I had a drunken one nightstand and got pregnant advice?

Quoting thisunrest:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Rafael's Mommy ♥:</b>" It says she's 19 on her profile."</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... your teacher was. I'd assumed you were fourteen. If you're nineteen he's not a pedophile, just a run-of-the-mill douchebag."

I"m beginning to wonder if this poor girl really is 14. How would she go about running into her middle school teacher all of a sudden? At 19, if she graduated, she's either been graduated a year or just did. Most high school/middle schools aren't adjoined, so how did they just stumble upon each other. I don't know if she's just saying she's 19 so he doesn't get in trouble because she cares for him so much. I sure hope that's not the case, : (

Ill keep it short n sweet. Smurf him and his feelings! File for child support! Wish u luck hun...... and ur parents will come around! Mine did.

Quoting Mrs. God of Thunder:" I"m beginning to wonder if this poor girl really is 14. How would she go about running into her middle ... [snip!] ... just saying she's 19 so he doesn't get in trouble because she cares for him so much. I sure hope that's not the case, : ("

my high school and middle school were connected

Id say screw him (oh wait...) and everyone else..And do whatever you want to do, if you want the baby then you keep it!..Only you can decide what to do  .


As all the other ladies have said, talk to your parents..I didn't tell my parents i was pregnant until i was 21 weeks almost, and i regret doing that as it hurt them that id keep that kinda' secret from them, they we're annoyed at me for a short time but when theres a cute little grandchild involved then they dont half come around and love the child  , it truly is a wonderful thing  


Wishing you lots of luck in whatever you choose to do!

My best advice.. Have the baby. Do not let anyone pressure you into doing something that you dont feel right about. If you do not want it, and he doesnt want it, then give it up for adoption. There are thousands of families that are pleading with god for a child, and you could give that to them. If you decide to keep it, then that is okay too. But remember- had your own mother been in the same situation, and chose the latter, then you would not be here to even be thinking about this decision. You are grown, you can make your own choices, never let someone pressure you. You deserve better than that. Good luck.  

i hope to god you are not a teenager. if so,call the cops.

give his wife a call(screw his feelings because he doesn't care about yours)if you were the wife,wouldn't YOU want to know your man was screwing around so you could leave his ass?

call a damn good lawyer.

make HIM pay for your prenatal care/baby care(bc the state shouldn't)

that's if you keep it.

......i would ABORT though.

My prayers are with you, hun.  

Quoting ☮ Phuket:" I have no advice, except its always a bad idea to sleep with your teacher. Unless he is Ezra Fitts. Lol"

lol, I love Pretty Little Liars!