re: Am I in the wrong here?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Booger & Bubba's Mommy:</b>" You could use it for something else. I would get some new clothes, bra's, maybe some groceries. It could ... [snip!] ... besides that. Is there a reason he is against the tattoo? Does he thing you should spend it on something besides yourself?"</blockquote>


Clothes & bras I won't be buying (in the process of losing weight don't want to waste money) and we have more then enough on fs for groceries. & no I'm not really sure why he's so against it & idk what else there would be to spend it on, my daughter has everything she needs, our house has every thing it needs, I mean this is literally a extra $100.

i just spent 400. on a tattoo lol,
it's free money u wouldn't have otherwise, just do what u want with it,

<blockquote><b>Quoting Crystal Marie S.:</b>" Yes you can. I got a $100 Visa gift card from DirecTV and spent it on bills. But it depends on if you ... [snip!] ... paid. If you have bills to be paid and are choosing to spend it on a tattoo instead, then I think it's irresponsible as well."</blockquote>



Hogg no no no , I wouldn't do that, we're fine on bills right now we just paid them all beginning of this month.

I don't see what's so bad about taking money you won to splurge on something you normally wouldn't get. It's not like it's a million dollars.. it's a freakin $75 tattoo. You're letting him choose what to do with his money, why can't you do the same? He shouldn't have any say in what you do with that money.

Quoting Tates Wife:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Crystal Marie S.:</b>" Yes you can. I got a $100 Visa gift card ... [snip!] ... Hogg no no no , I wouldn't do that, we're fine on bills right now we just paid them all beginning of this month."

Then do whatever you want with it. If it's totally free money then he shouldn't have a problem with you spending it on yourself.

<blockquote><b>Quoting LayLu:</b>" I don't see what's so bad about taking money you won to splurge on something you normally wouldn't get. ... [snip!] ... him choose what to do with his money, why can't you do the same? He shouldn't have any say in what you do with that money."</blockquote>




The shop doesn't take debit or credit cards, so I need cash. I'm thinking about just doing it behind his back somewhere else but it will just stir smurf up and it'd be a whole other problem then just spending $75 . Also, I have 2 tattoos & didn't pay for either. (Sister tattoo & HK tattoo part of a bogo)

Quoting Tates Wife:" A week ago I won $200 off the radio ($100 in my name the other $100 in SOs name) I knew what I wanted ... [snip!] ... that we would have never had if I didn't call. I don't see why I'm terrible for wanting a tattoo that represents our family :/"

You can pay bills with Visa cards...

...as long as bills and everything are paid and you guys have food, a roof over your head, and clothes...
I don't see why you can't spend the money on what you want.

SO complaines when I get tattoos (once or twice a year) then I have to remind him that he spends more on cigs in a few months then my tattoo costs. When he stops smoking ill stop

Quoting M walls:" SO complaines when I get tattoos (once or twice a year) then I have to remind him that he spends more on cigs in a few months then my tattoo costs. When he stops smoking ill stop"

That's a nice compromise.