Little bit of a Rant

As of Wednesday i will be a week late on my Period. I haven't tested because I don't think i could be pregnant. Only time I have had sex was with my fiance, and we used a condom and he pulled.
What gets me though is, I told my Fiance i was late. What my fiance says to me, the only way you can be pregnant is if it's a miracle baby, or you cheated. I have been with him for 5 years we have a son together and i feel really upset and hurt about it. I don't know how to get over what he said to me.
Not to mention the same time he was telling me that he was also comparing our relationship to his ex's and his. He was doing that because I was told by my family that our son was crying and he just kept telling him to shut up and be quiet already, so i asked him. He said that this was just like his and his ex's that everyone was telling things to try and drive them apart.

I see nothing wrong.

You aren't pregnant because you two haven't had sex to get pregnant so he was right. If you are it's a miracle or someone else's.

I'm sure he's not feeling great knowing you're late for your period and he hasn't had sex with you.

And he didn't compare your relationship at all. He said the same thing happened in his past, when he happened to be dating someone else.

My dude compared me to his exs ONCE. Never happened again. That smurf is NOT ok.

But what he said was smurffy and stupid. Guys don't realize the only 100% full proof birth control is abstinence.

thats just it. that is the only time i have had sex. I am not a cheater. I am 6 months PP and i can barely look at myself the mirror none the less have sex with someone else. I barely have sex with him because i don't like how i look. Not to mention I work 40+ hours a week (usual schedule is 2 pm to 12am), i have 45 minutes to hour drive to and from work. I leave work go straight home, to bed so that i can at least get some sleep before i have to get up and take care of our son in the morning. Even if i wanted to cheat i dont have time.
As for comparing, he has a daughter with his ex. he was telling me that his ex's mother told her lies to get her to hate him and break up with him and that is what is happening to us.
When we fight he is all the time telling me that i am worse then his ex.
He tried to compare his daughter to our son once and i stopped that but i cant seem to stop the others

<blockquote><b>Quoting Momma's Little Man-Keith :</b>" thats just it. that is the only time i have had sex. I am not a cheater. I am 6 months PP and i can barely ... [snip!] ... i am worse then his ex. He tried to compare his daughter to our son once and i stopped that but i cant seem to stop the others"</blockquote>



He didn't accuse you of cheating. It was a joke.

He compared situations. He didn't compare you to his ex. If he DOES tell you you're "worse than his ex" in other situations, he should leave you or knock it off.

Why can't he compare his two children? Just because his daughter is not yours doesn't mean she's any less valid. You learn parenting skills by comparing children, techniques, situations, etc.

I'd be upset too. First off if you have sex, then you could be pregnant regardless of what protection you used. There are plenty of people who wore condoms and did the pull out method and got pregnant. I would feel really disrespected. Honestly even if he felt that way, it was a stupid thing to say. I dont really see how he was comparing you to his ex though. I would just talk to him about it, and let him know it really hurt your feelings.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Soon 2B Mom of 2:</b>" I'd be upset too. First off if you have sex, then you could be oregnant regardless of what protection ... [snip!] ... how he was comparing you to his ex though. I would just talk to him about it, and let him know it really hurt your feelings."</blockquote>




They DIDN'T have sex.

Quoting Red Bottom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Soon 2B Mom of 2:</b>" I'd be upset too. First off if you have ... [snip!] ... I would just talk to him about it, and let him know it really hurt your feelings."</blockquote> They DIDN'T have sex."

It says in her OP that she didnt think she could be pregnant because they had sex but used a condom, and he pulled out...

<blockquote><b>Quoting Soon 2B Mom of 2:</b>" It says in her OP that she didnt think she could be pregnant because they had sex but used a condom, and he pulled out..."</blockquote>




I can't read  

Quoting Red Bottom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Soon 2B Mom of 2:</b>" It says in her OP that she didnt think ... [snip!] ... she could be pregnant because they had sex but used a condom, and he pulled out..."</blockquote> I can't read  "

Happens to us all sometimes  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Soon 2B Mom of 2:</b>" Happens to us all sometimes  "</blockquote>




Lol I think this is like, the second time today.

Quoting Red Bottom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Momma's Little Man-Keith :</b>" thats just it. that is the only ... [snip!] ... is not yours doesn't mean she's any less valid. You learn parenting skills by comparing children, techniques, situations, etc."

He didnt compare things along parenting. he compared them along what they like and didnt like, Telling me the age that she did things. He only knows the stuff from age like 1 and up. He wasn't in her life before that the girl took his daughter and wouldnt let him see her until he took her to court.

The cheating part wasn't a joke because he told me how he cant touch me, or anything without me telling him to get off. which makes him think i am cheating on him. And i do that lately because anymore when he is in bed with me and trying to lay with me its like all he wants is sex (typical guy), or i feel clausterphobic (sp)

<blockquote><b>Quoting Momma's Little Man-Keith :</b>" He didnt compare things along parenting. he compared them along what they like and didnt like, Telling ... [snip!] ... when he is in bed with me and trying to lay with me its like all he wants is sex (typical guy), or i feel clausterphobic (sp)"</blockquote>




You sound like a very hard person to please.