Quoting .:Lady SCARcastic:.:" We've been living together for about a month now.. I love it! But last night we got into our first semi ... [snip!] ... shouldn't exist. My parents were big fighters.. still are.. and so any sign of confrontation I usually try to run away :/ help?"I think you have to ease into it. You can't expect everything to be perfect right away, because of course you're coming from two different worlds and you have to compromise on everything. It's hard! It's taken my husband and I about 9 months to get things running smoothly because we didn't live together before we got married. But I'm patient with him and when something bothers me, I bring it up in a non-confrontational way, more like suggestions and he's beginning to catch on to the "right" way to do things. lol He was always very uninvolved with household stuff but we've talked about it and even written down lists of responsibilities each of us handle to make it easier. For example, I hate doing laundry but he doesn't mind so he takes care of that. Not saying that would work for you but get creative and give it time.