Quoting Munchkin Maker:" I haven't done counseling or anger management yet, only because I want to wait until after I have LO ... [snip!] ... because I know this is something that won't just "resolve itself". You know. My SO has been unbelievably patient with me."
Yea it makes sense to wait until after you have the baby so you can be more focused on what you're doing there.
I might think about doing this...to me it's a scary thought, but it can't hurt nothing to try it. I really do love/care about my SO and I think we do well together, and everything that I've been wondering and stressing about might just be me and my insecurities that were brought on by 4 years of abuse.
thanks for the advice, it was nice to connect with someone that had an idea of what I was talking about lol