Umm, what if I don't want an abortion?

Hi, I'm 14 and I'm 6 weeks pregnant. However, my parents don't think I should keep it. My bf and I both want it though. My bf's got a job and I plan to take online classes. My bf actually always wanted me to get pregnant and have his baby. But my mom has said if I keep it she'll kick me out. And that's basically why I'm agreeing to get an abortion. And he understands and doesn't want me to suffer for having the baby if it gets me kicked out. But I don't rally want this. Advice?

If it were me I'd get an abortion. Good luck.

Your boyfriend wanted you to get pregnant at 14?

Its ultimately your choice but on the other hand there is no way you can raise a baby financially at 14.

Your parents are probably right in that the best thing you could do is have an abortion. What age is your boyfriend and why do you both want a baby/think it is a good idea?

Quoting Justus17:" Hi, I'm 14 and I'm 16 weeks pregnant. However, my parents don't think I should keep it. My bf and I both ... [snip!] ... he understands and doesn't want me to suffer for having the baby if it gets me kicked out. But I don't rally want this. Advice?"

its your body , your choice . yes your young & sometimes at your age the thought process is completely different than it would be when your 20 + , its still only YOUR choice . IF you really dont want one , you dont have to go through with it . Your parents are being reasonable though , they dont want to see you fail or struggle .
Im 21 ( turning 22 in oct.) & my mother STILL worries about me & my choices because she doesnt want me to struggle .

#1 no one is going to give you an abortion at 16 weeks.
#2 your boyfriend is a smurfing idiot and so are you for allowing him to knock you up.
#3 you will not marry your boyfriend at 14
#4 his half ass part time job will not support your $11,000 a year baby.
#5 you can't even drive to the delivery room when you're in labor, let alone drive the baby to the doctor, day care, or yourself to school.
#6 neither of you are old enough to provide insurance, so how will the baby's thousands of dollars in medical bills be getting paid?
#7 you need to look into adoption.

Unless you can financially support the child and provide for it, get an abortion.

**Eta**
I read the OP wrong. If you're only 14 you have SOO much more to get out of life. You're still a child yourself. I had my daughter at 20 and I still think that maybe it was too early.

Good luck OP. You need to make the decision that is best for you, none of us are in
your shoes so we can't really tell you what to do.

How old is your boyfriend? I would get the abortion. You are 14, you will miss out on so much and struggle a smurf ton. Nobody can make you do anything but it wouldn't be really fair for your parents to have to take care or a child they didn't create.

If you don't want an abortion, don't get an abortion. But you best be coming up with a pretty damn good plan to make enough money to raise a baby on your own.

You should have an abortion. The fact that your boyfriend wanted your 14 year old butt to get pregnant is showing how irresponsible and stupid both of you were being.

How old is this idiot anyway?

Your parents can't force you to abort but they can't kick you out either. They surely have the right to not let that child in their house though.

Quoting Red Bottom:" #1 no one is going to give you an abortion at 16 weeks. #2 your boyfriend is a smurfing idiot and so ... [snip!] ... insurance, so how will the baby's thousands of dollars in medical bills be getting paid? #7 you need to look into adoption."

 
                   

<blockquote><b>Quoting ℳonster's ℳom:</b>" If it were me I'd keep the pregnancy and put it up for adoption. The idea of an abortion that far along ... [snip!] ... OP. You need to make the decision that is best for you, none of us are in your shoes so we can't really tell you what to do."</blockquote>


Adoption wouldn't be a bad option either. Any option that doesn't end with you attempting to raise a child at 14.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" #1 no one is going to give you an abortion at 16 weeks. #2 your boyfriend is a smurfing idiot and so ... [snip!] ... insurance, so how will the baby's thousands of dollars in medical bills be getting paid? #7 you need to look into adoption."</blockquote>


Doesn't she have until 22 weeks or something in some states?