baby dad. when do I ?

Give up and realize he will never grow up ?
For my own reasons I didn't want his GF around my son no real reason just wasn't ready for that. After so long of BD only asking when she was around I gave up and said I didn't care anymore he quit asking for LO and doesn't text me at all when she is around. I've been begging him for weeks now to come get LO he's always "busy" or says "I can't drop what I'm doing and come get him every time you want me to"
I've texted him 3 or 4 times today he's read all of them (thank you iPhone) and hasn't replied to a single one?
It's really hurting me because I want my LO to see his dad but now it's like BD doesn't want to
So do I quit asking? Or keep asking and say at least I tried?

is there no custody agreement that gives a schedule to when he sees lo? maybe you need to sit down and ask him to mutually make one up, this way he knows ahead of time and doesnt need to randomly drop any plans. i would attempt that before just giving up

do what you feel is right. unfortunately some men dont make their children priority once they break up with the mother. its sad but you cant force him. keep lots of records in case it gets out of control and you should ever have to go to court for any reason. if it were me, i would probably give up. he will regret it someday.

I've tried that he says "what if something comes up or (insert another lame excuse)"

Quoting First Time Momma(::" Give up and realize he will never grow up ? For my own reasons I didn't want his GF around my son no ... [snip!] ... I want my LO to see his dad but now it's like BD doesn't want to So do I quit asking? Or keep asking and say at least I tried?"

Set up Visitation with him, keep a record of you trying to let him see your child. There is not much you can do about the GF being aruond your baby unless you have an iron clad reason.

Quoting First Time Momma(::" I've tried that he says "what if something comes up or (insert another lame excuse)""

tell him thats part of being a parent and he needs to deal with it.nothing that important will ever come up that he cant plan another day he doesnt have his child

i was just informed he's at the mall  

Quoting First Time Momma(::" i was just informed he's at the mall  "

sometimes they never do get their priorities straight. i was with my ex 6 years and married 3. He saw his kids every single day...now? two days a month and i have to set like everything up. its pathetic