im writting because i am concerned about my brother and sister n law. they've been ttc for 7 years. This was their first round of IVF and it was unsuccessful. I am so heartbroken for them. does anyone with personal experience know an unannoying & unoffensive way I can send them flowers, card, prayers? i dont know what to say and I want them to know I love them & support them!
If you send them something, do not send it with a direct "because of your infertility"
Especially because you are pregnant and they probably have some resentment.
If you want to help them feel better, send them movie tickets, a dinner gift card, chocolates, flowers.. with no meaning or anything. No discription. Or send them a card that says "Thinking of you" or "i'm here for you" agian, without being specific as to why.
You could send them some flowers or a card letting them know you're thinking of/praying for them and that's enough to let them know you're there to support them. Try to avoid making suggestions, especially things like suggesting adoption, saying this is a part of God's plan, that you KNOW it will happen for them one day. Just let them know you're there and you're pulling for them.