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Quoting B-Baby:" See I have no idea she kept talking about it yesterday before she knew for sure.. and within 30 min ... [snip!] ... and sister and ME! but again i cant make this decision for her... I can only be there her whatever she ultamently decides... "

keep us posted. It does seem like fear may be her issue. We all know that fear can be overcome but regret can be much harder to live with. You are a good friend  

It's a tough one, but ultimately like most of the people said here it is her choice - all you have to do right now, as a best friend is to support her. Just like a family member, you can't force her to choose. I hope that she'll be all right!

Quoting 6 blessings so far....:" keep us posted. It does seem like fear may be her issue. We all know that fear can be overcome but regret can be much harder to live with. You are a good friend  "

Thanks!
&& yes I think it is just the fear.. shes suppose to make the call to the clinic today and let me know... but she just gotten very DRUNK the last few nights trying to forget it so I think she's pretty set on it.  

UPDATE!!!!

I'm going with her to the clinic tomorrow after my 36 week check up...
She's doing paper work and an U/S...

I know it's gonna be hard to see the little jumping bean on the screen and know on Thursday it'll be gone.. I dunno how she's gonna handle it, I don't think she knows how she's gonna handle it.  

Quoting B-Baby:" UPDATE!!!! I'm going with her to the clinic tomorrow after my 36 week check up... She's doing paper ... [snip!] ... know on Thursday it'll be gone.. I dunno how she's gonna handle it, I don't think she knows how she's gonna handle it.  "

mabe she will change her mind.....if she does i pray its b4 thursday and not after the proceedure.

Quoting B-Baby:" UPDATE!!!! I'm going with her to the clinic tomorrow after my 36 week check up... She's doing paper ... [snip!] ... know on Thursday it'll be gone.. I dunno how she's gonna handle it, I don't think she knows how she's gonna handle it.  "

She may change her mind once she sees it but if not and she's dead set then she probably won't even look at the screen.

<blockquote><b>Quoting 6 blessings so far....:</b>" mabe she will change her mind.....if she does i pray its b4 thursday and not after the proceedure."</blockquote>




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