NEED ADVICE!!!

Okay this is my third child and I need to know how to handle things. My emancipation documents are almost final and my mom has my apartment almost paid off. My aunt and uncle are going to let me have my daughters put back into my custody and I have 12 weeks and 2days left to go before I pop. I need to know how you ladies handle things. My children's father is not around to help so most of the time it will be just me or my older cousin taking care of the kids. HELP!!!!!

Quoting Patience Renee:" Okay this is my third child and I need to know how to handle things. My emancipation documents are almost ... [snip!] ... father is not around to help so most of the time it will be just me or my older cousin taking care of the kids. HELP!!!!!"

Handle what?

Not sure what kind of advice you're looking for?

Just take all the help your family gives you, and stay on birth control until forever.

15 on your third child?

Hold on, are you under 18 and having your THIRD child?

Wait... your 14 and on your 3rd child?

Quoting Amber n dave:" Wait... your 14 and on your 3rd child?"

her profile says the other kids are 11 month old twins

You are 15 and will have 3 children. You cannot even make good decisions for yourself, how do you expect to care for 3 infants, go to school, pay for child care, feed them, feed yourself, etc.

And what judge emancipated you?

Yes 14 and on my third child. Long story but honestly and literally the twins were not at all my fault. Really do not want to go into that. But the advice I am seeking is: how do single mothers handle daily stress, chores, work, and school. My family plays a big role but in the next week or so my emancipation will be final and I will technically be an adult.

Can OP legally work F/T with an emancipation?

Still I don't know where she'd get a job. Stay in school OP even if you do high school online. It's extremely important.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Brink:</b>" her profile says the other kids are 11 month old twins "</blockquote>




Ohh ok. Geez hard situation.

Finish school. Get a job. Good luck.

If your children aren't in your custody, this won't help you now, but whenever the time comes that you get them back, apply for all the government assistance you can get. I am certain you will need it. Including medical, that will cover birth control. Once you're emancipated you can legally work, so hustle your butt until you find a job to support those 3 babies along with the cost of everything else.
I had my son alone at 18 & it was the hardest thing ever, it was such a struggle & I worked my ass off to have the amazing life we do have now. But you can do it if you really try. No excuses.

Oh wait.. You're 15? I didn't think you could get emancipated unless you were at least 16 AND could prove to the court that you could maintain a job and a place on your own with no help.