I'm fuming right now. It's probably worse because I just got woken up to this.

I worked from 4am-noon today. We had to run a few errands when I got off work. His friend called him and wanted to hang out for a bit. No problem... I wanted to take a nap anyways. So I told him I was gonna just throw some things in the crock pot and it'd be done tonight.

He came home like 30 minutes ago, saying he's gonna go with his friend to get a tattoo. The shop we go to is 45 minutes away... and who knows how long this tattoo will take. So, he'd definitely be missing out on dinner. And he doesn't understand why I'm mad! He knew I was making dinner. And I expected to have him home tonight. Now I'll be eating dinner alone, and he'll eat whenever he decides to waltz back through the door  

So... either tell me I'm being stupid or I have every right to be mad. Because I know for a fact that if he made plans with me, and I bailed to hang out with friends... he'd be pissed.

Is he being inconsiderate or am I being controlling?

A little bit of both, I think... but I'm controlling too, so.. I feel ya.

you're being a little psycho, but I'm a little psycho too at times  

You're being stupid.
It's a crockpot dinner not something romantic you slaved over for 4hours.

It's mildly inconsiderate, but eh. Whatever. I guess I don't see the big deal, I'd just go out and do something else.

I'd be bummed, not mad.

Quoting Dovahkiin:" A little bit of both, I think... but I'm controlling too, so.. I feel ya. "

He said I'm controlling, and the fact that he HAD to come home and ask me if he could go out if bullsmurf.

Woah... I didn't MAKE him come home. I knew nothing of these tattoo plans until HE came home on his own free-will.

At least he came home and told you. I would be mad if he just went and told me after he already left. Why didn't you tell him it bugged you when he was home?

I get being annoyed but you seem really pissed and that seems like overkill to me.

Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift:" It's mildly inconsiderate, but eh. Whatever. I guess I don't see the big deal, I'd just go out and do something else. "

This is what I had planned on doing tonight. I'm tired.. I had gotten 2 hours of sleep last night before work. I'm still tired. I wanted to spend a night with him.

I would be upset, did he even have the balls to even ask if you wanted to go at least? I'd be pissed, tomorrow it's his turn to make you dinner cuz what you made was eaten alone by yourself.

It's inconsiderate of him, but I wouldn't be THAT angry. I'd be pissed that I have to eat alone because I hate that, but there are worse things he could have done.

Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:" At least he came home and told you. I would be mad if he just went and told me after he already left. Why didn't you tell him it bugged you when he was home?"

He's still home. In the bedroom. Moping like a 5 year old.

I wouldn't be pissed, but it'd make me sad.
I'd talk to him about it, but I wouldn't make a big deal of it. I'd just tell him how I feel and explain why I was disappointed.

I think you have the right to be upset.