re: Wanting to be done being pregnant at 37 weeks

<blockquote><b>Quoting mbowman:</b>" I'm sorry for your loss. I'm sure gestational time wasn't the only factor in you daughter dying. Why ... [snip!] ... say something like that? Are you seriously wishing that I go through the same thing? Seems spiteful to say something like that."</blockquote>




Are you smurfing mental? She didn't even come close to saying anything like that, you smurfing drama whore.
God. Get over yourself.

No I was not wishing that on you! I was simply saying that don't think just cuz your baby is 37 weeks that its ready to come out. Obviously I know what its like to lose a child why would I wish that on someone?? How dare you even suggest that. You also don't know why my daughter died so don't make assumptions. They never found out what happened to her and this was 6 months ago, so it easily could have been she wasn't developed enough.

Quoting ♥Mama Constantine:" <blockquote><b>Quoting mbowman:</b>" I'm sorry for your loss. I'm sure gestational ... [snip!] ... you smurfing mental? She didn't even come close to saying anything like that, you smurfing drama whore. God. Get over yourself."

Thank you! Shes a dumbass for wanting her baby out now.

<blockquote><b>Quoting mbowman:</b>" So here is my update. I've been having contractions since after I posted. I did not do anything to start ... [snip!] ... weighing 2 lbs 4 oz and 3 lbs 15 oz. I know this little one, if it ends up there, it's a few days if that not almost 2 months."</blockquote>




I try not to read too much into what ppl say on here bc the littlest thing you may have not even meant to say could have come off wrong and then some are going to come at you with not so nice remarks. You should have just left the love making comment out bc that is what out of everything you said even though it made sense that some would focus on. All over babies are born at 37 weeks. It is safe to deliver at that point bc if it weren't your doctor would have surely stopped it as would mine had but one thing you will not get support on on here is advising you to do smthn or anything to get the baby to come early bc a lot of moms think 40 weeks even 42 weeks is when you should be focusing on trying things to help it along the way. I for one have never had a baby past 36 weeks so I for my 4th time expect my baby to come at 36/37 weeks, I do not fo anything to cause it its just when my babies are ready.most ppl will look at the fact you had a former csection as a factor to why you should not rush it.I eill not say anything negative towards you bc I know the feeling but I know my body naturally labors early but u won't here me ask anyone quest ions about it bc that is such a sensitive topic for most ppl and like I said most women will tell you 40 weeks is term.not for me and obviously not for you but im sorry your feeling so horrible. I feel like I can not make it another day sometimes myself. Im counting down the days untill may and handling my 3 kids now everyday is hard from all the pain, I never sleep bc im so uncomfortable, i have backpain from hell, im swollen all over, migraines from hell, I limp when I walk bc my muscles hurt so much, my belly is measuring 2 weeks ahead. Im 28 wks 4 days but measuring over 30, ive had vontractions like crazy for past two months, my vagina has this deep sharp pain it is horrible but it is what I have to endure for at least untill ive reached the safe point being able to deliver. Good luck to you

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kelsey Gilmer:</b>" No I was not wishing that on you! I was simply saying that don't think just cuz your baby is 37 weeks ... [snip!] ... They never found out what happened to her and this was 6 months ago, so it easily could have been she wasn't developed enough."</blockquote>



Sorry for your loss. Your so strong to go through 9 months of pregnancy then have yo go through that.