Quoting Not tellin:" <blockquote><b>Quoting LilMama81892:</b>" So I just found out 2 days ago I am expecting ... [snip!] ... they will see it. If you can "afford" the new baby, you all should have been on your own BEFORE you started your TTC journey."
Quoting S U Z I E:" I'd probably be pissed if my 20yo daughter had a 27yo BF, a baby, lived at my house and was TTC...."yeah...seriously
Quoting Mason&Chloe'sMama:" So you can't tell them because you haven't moved into your new place? "Yeah that's exactly why. It's killing me, I am so happy about it and then I cry because I can't tell anybody about it. I just have to wait the four weeks. His whole family knows and is extremely happy about it he is the oldest of 3 his 24 year old sister has 3. He'll be 28 this year so it's a big deal for his family him having his first child.
Quoting Addi's Momma:" why would you want to tell them so soon? What if you miscarry then you have to go through the process ... [snip!] ... my family before my first ultrasound. Now I am thrilled. I can spare them the pain that I had to go through with a d&c."If you have never gone through a m/c a lot of women think it will never happen to them and end up telling everyone right away. I was like that until my m/c. I was so naive. I waited until my first u/s; 9 weeks to even tell anyone except for a few close people. I agree with you though and waiting. She won't even be showing at 8 weeks so I'd not tell either
Quoting LilMama81892:" I honestly do not care about any nasty comments. I asked for advice and if you do not have anything to say besides being rude then DO NOT COMMENT. Thanks."You don't make any damn sense. Not everyone is going to agree with you especially since you were TTC while living with your parents. You sound like a brat
Quoting katxo[15wks]:" If you have never gone through a m/c a lot of women think it will never happen to them and end up telling ... [snip!] ... except for a few close people. I agree with you though and waiting. She won't even be showing at 8 weeks so I'd not tell either"I never thought it would happen to me either. I just had a gut feeling this pregnancy not to tell. Plus, I didn't want to deal with my mother's ridicule. She is never happy for anyone. I most definitely won't say anything til at least 12 weeks next time.