re: Sad

Quoting katxo[15wks]:" If you have never gone through a m/c a lot of women think it will never happen to them and end up telling ... [snip!] ... except for a few close people. I agree with you though and waiting. She won't even be showing at 8 weeks so I'd not tell either"

Yeah I don't mind waiting and I am scared of miscarriage everyday until the second trimester. I just feel a little guilty not telling her.

<blockquote><b>Quoting katxo[15wks]:</b>" You don't make any damn sense. Not everyone is going to agree with you especially since you were TTC while living with your parents. You sound like a brat"</blockquote>




Case and point.

<blockquote><b>Quoting LilMama81892:</b>" I honestly do not care about any nasty comments. I asked for advice and if you do not have anything to say besides being rude then DO NOT COMMENT. Thanks."</blockquote>


No one's being nasty, what you did WAS irresponsible, we're not going to tell you it's okay.


Like i said, hopefully things don't fall through and you can move out.

Quoting LilMama81892:" Yeah that's exactly why. It's killing me, I am so happy about it and then I cry because I can't tell ... [snip!] ... oldest of 3 his 24 year old sister has 3. He'll be 28 this year so it's a big deal for his family him having his first child."

I'm not going to be a bitch to you because that won't get anyone anywhere. Everyone does things that are irresponsible without realizing it. But it would be best to wait until after about 12 weeks to tell them. But that's just my opinion. Good luck to you.

Quoting Mason&Chloe'sMama:" I'm not going to be a bitch to you because that won't get anyone anywhere. Everyone does things that ... [snip!] ... it. But it would be best to wait until after about 12 weeks to tell them. But that's just my opinion. Good luck to you."

I will wait then!!

You couldn't wait a month and used a condom until you had your own house?

Having sex in your parents house while they let you stay, that's real respectful. Hope you don't mind if they come over to yours and have sex.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Squid Kid:</b>" You couldn't wait a month and used a condom until you had your own house? Having sex in your parents ... [snip!] ... parents house while they let you stay, that's real respectful. Hope you don't mind if they come over to yours and have sex."</blockquote>

Meh, my mom would rather me have sex at home than in a car or somewhere stupid and get arrested. She expects i use condoms and birth control, which i always do.

Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Squid Kid:</b>" You couldn't wait a month and used a condom ... [snip!] ... sex at home than in a car or somewhere stupid and get arrested. She expects i use condoms and birth control, which i always do."

And this person didn't, but it's still disrespectful.

Quoting Squid Kid:" And this person didn't, but it's still disrespectful."

Uhm my fiance doesn't live with me first off and it's my house too. I help my mom pay the bills. I don't live there for free I help her.

I don't understand what the big deal is. It is not like the baby is here yet, so why does it matter if your still living with them?

<blockquote><b>Quoting LilMama81892:</b>" Uhm my fiance doesn't live with me first off and it's my house too. I help my mom pay the bills. I don't live there for free I help her."</blockquote>




Of course you do. That is why you are worried about their reaction and why you are worried they will think they have to take care of this baby too.

Makes perfect sense.  

Quoting LilMama81892:" Uhm my fiance doesn't live with me first off and it's my house too. I help my mom pay the bills. I don't live there for free I help her."

OP if I were you I'd just stop posting. Bashing bitches will bash to the ends of the earth, no matter what you say.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mason&Chloe'sMama:</b>" OP if I were you I'd just stop posting. Bashing bitches will bash to the ends of the earth, no matter what you say. "</blockquote>




The only "Bashing Bitch" I see at this point would be you. Calling a spade a spade is one thing, name calling is another. Not one person in here called OP anything horrible. Facts are facts. If it is her house too, she shouldn't have to worry. Right?!?

If you want to run the drama train, you will need the proper hat. The oraface of which you speak from should never be confused with the one that eliminates waste.  

Quoting Not tellin:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mason&Chloe'sMama:</b>" OP if I were you I'd just stop posting. ... [snip!] ... need the proper hat. The oraface of which you speak from should never be confused with the one that eliminates waste.  "

Really? Ooohhhh okay. That's cool.

Quoting Mason&Chloe'sMama:" Really? Ooohhhh okay. That's cool."

Lol You make this way too easy