ttc baby number four yes I said four lol

Hi, I have three kids already oldest 4 middle 2 will be 3 end of may and my youngest is 1 will be 2 in july was happy with just my family till I got pregnant out of no and at first was freaking out omg four kids what am I gonna do then got used to it and then was excited but then it was like a nightmare started bleeding and was thinking no way this is happening to me I cant be mc I have had three babies no problem but finally had to come to terms with it lost my baby early 7 weeks prego on thanksgiving weekend 2012. Well January was talking to my mom and she brought up that me or my husband needs to look into getting fixed (my mom thought two kids and shouldnt have more than that so went threw that before) and I looked at her and said u know what I got used to the idea of haveing another baby and she looked at me for a sec and she said me too ;) so been ttc ever since with no luck weird for me. Which the first one took me two years and was just started going to the doc to get ck out and forgot about trying cuz thought something was wrong and ended up not paying attention and missed two period s before took a test and havent stoped wanting kids since

That was very, very hard to read...
But congrats on TTC. Good luck.

Good luck   my kids are almost 4, almost 3, almost 2 and 1 month.

Holy run on sentences   But four can't be any harder than three. I mean three wasn't any harder than two in my opinion. It gets easier with each baby I think. Good luck with the TTC journey. DH and I are not sure if we want anymore children or not so for now, three is good for us   FWIW, mine are 5, 4 and 6 months.

<blockquote><b>Quoting MunchkinWrangler:</b>" That was very, very hard to read... But congrats on TTC. Good luck."</blockquote>




I didnt hqve a problem, LOL
Op good luck! Im super nervous for 4, its gonna be alotta work

4 is just like three. I have a 9, 6, 5 and 3 month old. Trying for 5 and soon after 6. Done at 6!

This year were due with number 5.. it's not so bad

Good luck ttc! I'm sorry to hear about your miscarriage.
I'd love another baby but not sure about 4 kids lol hmmm....

OMG I just went through your story again. I miscarried a week before thanksgiving in 2011! But I just had Hudsen(4th) on a week before thanksgiving this year. Sadly I was freaking out too. I had NEVER had issues getting pregnant and I was so tore apart about it. I had all three of my babies easy. But #4 was hard on me. I had the WORST pregnancy with Hudsen after the miscarriage and he has been by FAR the hardest!

Thanks for yalls reply sorry was so long first post on a page like this and good luck to everyone ttc and another thing to moms with three or more kids what do u say to people who make lil comments about ur choice to have a big family that arent so nice

Quoting mommakatof3:" Thanks for yalls reply sorry was so long first post on a page like this and good luck to everyone ttc ... [snip!] ... with three or more kids what do u say to people who make lil comments about ur choice to have a big family that arent so nice"

i tell them to mind their own business. They aint paying for anything of mine or my children, so they have no say in what I do

I don't respond. to people that are rude. They can have their opinions. I don't judge others or make others feel bad. I stay happy and neutral.  

I get asked all the time "Is this your first?" and when I tell them nope its my fourth, I either get looked at like im crazy or have really rude little comments such as "you know what prevents that?" Ive had someone tell me that I should have used a wire hanger.. That didnt go over very well! Ive had many people tell me to get my tubes tied after this one. It doesnt bother me as much because to each their own but I dont want to be told whats best for me. I understand 4 is alot but im the one providing for my kids not them so if I want to have more I will.

Thanks a lot ladies. Yea I dont understand why people want to open there mouth to say stuff like that. If u dont have anything nice to say dont speak just smile and walk on lol. B4 I mc I was telling my sister I gonna have to make a shirt for when I start showing to warn people yes im haveing another baby and if u dont have something nice dont talk to me

Quoting Mamitita:" I get asked all the time "Is this your first?" and when I tell them nope its my fourth, I either get ... [snip!] ... told whats best for me. I understand 4 is alot but im the one providing for my kids not them so if I want to have more I will."

Exactly! I think that most people just assume that people with more kids are always on government assistance and that all their babies were unplanned.